Watched New Moon tonight!

My friend and I got to go out just the two of us, and watch a movie together! We have both read all the of the twilight series books and now that the second movie is out in the series have been looking forward to going to see it. I have heard mixed reviews from this movie. Some love it, others thought certain parts where slow. I tried not to let the reviews I had heard alter my own opinion of the movie and wanted to see it myself. I visited my sister earlier in the day and told her I was going to see it and asked her if she enjoyed it (She saw it the previous weekend) She said she did, but as soon as she started to tell me more specific stuff I had to tell her to stop! I wanted to see it myself. Nothing makes a movie less fun than knowing the ending!

So my take, well if you enjoyed the books and like this sort of movie, then you should see it. Its defiantly better than the first movie. I really enjoyed it and wish that it was a marathon and let us watch the third movie too (as I know it was wrapped and ready!)

Did you know that the majority of this movie was filmed right here in my province? In fact, I could probably have driven to the set (if I knew where it was) within 1.5 hours. One of my other friends did just that. (for those of you who would love to see pictures of the set, check out her blog! http://quiltnutcreations.blogspot.com/search/label/twilight)

Now on a side note, my littlest one is driving me nuts when it comes to eating. She used to be so good and would eat pretty much anything you set in front of her (including spicy foods!) and now... well she wont. Shes got her set stuff she likes to eat.. I know shes not going to starve and is still getting an okay variety, but when I stick something on her tray/plate, she says "no no no" and either just wont eat it, or throws it on the floor. So how do you encourage them to try something new? Ignore it when they dont and hope eventually they will? Or do you push? Shes 18 months now and I dont want to turn this into a battle. My 6 year old is now questioning why her sister does not have to eat the things I make her eat. I can reason and talk to my 6 year old and tell her she "has" to eat it.. but can't do that yet with the 18 month old as she does not understand and gets her way! lol. Any ideas?

Hello to you all!

So I know I mentioned that December will have some monthly specials as well and that it would be free offers.. well I have decided that since December will also try and open up your own psychic gifts that much more that perhaps the December special will be connected to that as well. Once a week I will offer some lucky people the chance to have me help them with certain aspects of their gifts. This can be either done through MSN, can be done through email using instructions and helping back and forth..etc.. or other means. I have not decided which days will have the specials or for how many people its open for. This might even include a yahoo group invitation to a few posters to do it as a group exercise. I have done this a few times with people. Where you start off by having everyone focusing on a house. Its described on what it looks like and I tell everyone to enter the front door. Most people will actually see the same layout of the house, the same color tones.. its amazing how everyone can connect like that and so much fun! I have once done it on the phone with a friend from when we were teens and we both saw the same house which completely "tripped" us out! To this day I still remember the details and have since actually located the house I had seen.

This week has been a busy one for me and I am starting to feel the effects. I have been sleeping like a log so I would think, my back has been sore when I woke up which tells me that I have not moved a muscle. Yet I wake up feeling like I hadn't slept at all! Go figure!

So December first should mark the first of the posts about opening your abilities so please keep your eye on the blog. If there are specific questions or areas you would love to have addressed during this time, let me know and I will include it!!!

Happy Thanks Giving to all my American clients and their families. May you all have something in your life right now to be thankful for.

Sleep is totally overrated!!!

Can you tell this is a subject from someone who seems to be missing some? Today especially. I have been staying up a bit later the last few nights to try and get things done, and then my little one seems to be in the habit of waking up just when I am headed to bed. So after spending 1/2 hour getting her back to sleep and then crawling into my own, it can often make for a very short night of sleep. Then toss in a few times hearing the little one cry in the monitor only to fall back asleep....

Last night, I got to bed around 11:30-12am. I was lucky she did not wake up. I heard her twice during the night but before i could move a muscle she stopped so I went back to sleep. (most times I react and jump out of bed and go to her, but have since learned to just let her be and she will definitely let me know if I am needed). Well, 5:30am she decided that she needed me. Started to call me and a bit upset. I go in and cuddle with her and tuck her in beside me in the spare bed in the hopes that she will fall back asleep. She kinda tossed and turned and appeared to be trying which was nice. Then 6:10am rolls around and my husband gets up and starts to get ready for work. She hears him fill up the coffee maker and excited calls out "DADDY!!"

So starting my day today at 5:30 which I am sure everyone does at some point our another. I wish I could squeeze in a nap today, but I know it wont work. First, I am NOT a napper (usually feel worse after a nap) and second have some stuff that needs to be done.

I had a client ask me the other day how to tell if your guides are talking with you versus it just being your thoughts. I do think that this question can be a bit tricky. When your first starting out, its really hard to determine which is which. I think with practice of both asking your guides the questions and then making sure your listening, its often easier to tell the difference of when thoughts come from you versus when its from your guides.

To practice, try paying attention for the next few days with your thought pattern. Where there times when you were just thinking of random things and trying to sort something out and then out of the blue found the answer? Try asking yourself questions and then just allowing whatever you "think" to come through. After enough practice, you will realize which ones where just coming through from you and which ones from your guides. I often converse with my guides this way. I can be just sitting there and then thinking and given information I was trying to figure out or an idea to something I had put on the back burner. If I am unsure of which direction or path I need to take in a situation I will ask for help. I have also been given guidance or premonitions on situations about to happen. Most times its a few minutes before its about to happen, so they have provided only a short time for me to react! I ALWAYS make sure to say thank you so that they know how much I do appreciate the help they have given. I have been doing this long enough now, the thought pattern seems to have taken a different "tone" than what just comes from me.

Your guides do enjoy the attention and being acknowledged and will try and find ways to show you that its them and not just yourself talking to yourself:) I think that with doing this, its every one's biggest worry that they are just talking to themselves, and in turn they seem to shut themselves off to this more out of worry and fear rather than exploring their own gifts and opening themselves to it.

December is going to be about exploring our own gifts. I will try and focus on one aspect each week in order to encourage and open the people who are looking to explore their own psychic gifts.

I know its hard not to get discouraged

When you are trying to conceive that little baby. After the month goes by and your dreaded "aunt flo" comes for a nice little visit... but our souls are connected to our bodies. And sometimes what we feel in our hearts and our minds can actually affect the progress of trying to concieve. Have you head the saying " a watched pot never boils"? Its true. When your so focused on trying to concieve and getting discouraged and frustrated when it does not happen the first shot, your sending negative vibes to your body, which not only can stress yourself out, but also delay what your trying to achieve. The more positive and happy you are about this journey, most times the easier it will be. Try and tell yourself that your feeling relaxed... that your not going to worry when you are going to concieve anymore and that you realize that it will happen when its meant to be. That your open and willing and ready for this baby to come to you. Anything else you can add to be more positive will be great. I also have on my blog my positive thinking tips and tricks. Please check it out. it really does work!

I just wanted to say.....

THANK YOU.. to everyone.. whether you are my client using my bypass predictions or requesting a free prediction. Or just happen to be a reader on my blog. I just wanted to say THANK YOU. I LOVE helping people and you have all given me this opportunity to do just that. This truly makes me happy.

Decembers monthly special will be a free one again so keep checking back... Not going to tell you when its going to be announced so you will just have to keep checking back! lol.

I have made some wonderful connections with everyone as well, and love to hear your stories of your journey of ttc.

Speaking of stories, here is one of my clients journeys to help give you hope on your own ttc journeys!

Ok, I'll try to be brief....

In 2005 my husband and I decided to start a family...not as easy as we thought. We decided to seek the help of an outside source since we had no luck. The Fertility Specialist ruled me out right away but told us some really bad news about my husband. He had no sperm...NONE!! That was hard to hear. They told him to see a reproductive urologist, who did give us hope. He prescribed a round of HCG injections 3 times a week and my husband had to do this for a good 6-8 months before we conceived my son naturally. That was great because we though his sperm count would only get high enough to qualify me for Intrauterine insemination (IUI). I gave birth to our first son in December of 06.

Now, almost 3 years later, we have decided to add another addition to the family. Since we already know the situation, I didn't waste any time. We tried for one month and nothing. I quickly made an appointment for my husband to see the urologist again to see where we were at sperm wise. In the meantime, I was using the clear blue easy fertility monitor that a friend gave me. I was due to ovulate about a week and a half before our appointment and I though, no harm in trying. We only did it twice, right around the time the egg popped up on the monitor screen. I wasn't that serious about it because I figured my husband had a low count.

So, when we finally saw the doctor, he gave us not so good news...my husband had a sperm count of only 2 million which is so low, it's almost considered infertile. He prescribed the injections again and said come back in 3 months. I asked him if we should bother trying right now and he said that I would have to be "one fertile lady" for me to get pregnant with a count that low. Well, we hadn't even filled the prescription yet and by some miracle I became pregnant. I thought for sure I was going to get my period. I was waiting and waiting and nothing. I took 4 tests!! All positive. We were in shock!! My husband couldn't believe it, he said are you sure you don't have a boyfriend, lol!!! So, there is always hope. The saying is right...it only takes one!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Danielle :-)

Can someone come to my house to fold laundry?

Or heck, even come over and fold the socks? I HATE matching socks. I have no idea as you would think that it would be one of the easiest jobs in the world, but it drives me nuts when socks are missing their mates... and then you hold onto that sock in the hopes that one day its mate will return.

Weekends are usually my days "off". I don't do as much laundry, I don't clean the house as much. I am not online as much...(get the pattern here? lol). So today being Monday means I am back in cleaning mode. Yesterday I actually did clean my husbands "work" bathroom. So its sparkling. I meant to tackle the toy room but found myself distracted with playing farm town and farm ville.

Today, I have laundry going, just about to go and sort and fold and then have it all away. I am a stickler for keeping to the routine during the week. I like having something to do, even though it seems like it never ends.

Today is raining like crazy here, and the wind is HORRID. I saw two people outside today on my way to pick up my daughter from school and they were raking their leaves. No hats, or umbrellas (not sure how they would hold on to it anyways) but I couldn't believe that they were even outside! This is DEFINITELY an inside day in my books!

So if you have gotten this far ....first two people to post in the comment section telling about their day, get a free bypass prediction done. (email me cheri22@gmail.com if your one of the two people who made it) And even if there is already two posters, feel free to leave a comment anyways:) I do read all of them!

Did I ever mention that Mondays are my favorite day of the week?

The winner.. and my own interpretation:)

The winner is poster number five!!! (Angelac) please email me at cheri22@gmail.com to be able to claim your prize!! Thank you all to enter to win. Dreams can be tricky, and the one thing is to try and always take it with a grain of salt. I am not sure if everyone remembers, but I once had this crazy dream and when I interpreted it, I thought I was given a warning that I only had three days left to live.. (you can probably locate this dream in the labels section of this blog and read that post). After talking to my friend about it and telling her what I was thinking, she actually gave me the "proper" interpretation that related exactly to my life at that moment. I really think that although dreams can be 'warnings" they are never anything that is going to be "bad news" or something of complete concern..MOST times its your guides way of helping you deal with a situation in your life that your either involved in that moment, or perhaps have on the back burner because your not sure how to solve it.

Although the H1N1 does creep me out, and has been on my mind the last few weeks because I am unsure if I am to vaccinate or not (talked to my Dr who was saying that he was "supposed" to recommend it, but never actually came out and told me it was his professional opinion that i should, so needless to say I wont be getting it) I do not think that this is what the dream was about. In my interpretation most of the links to what was in the dream, relate specifically to spirituality. I have a feeling that a new part is able to open up that perhaps I am currently aware of but protecting myself against? Perhaps from my old ways, or stubbornness is keeping it from reaching its full potential. Which is why they show the symbol of the bridge, which shows me crossing it to a new "area". It also mentions being scared which I translate to a specific area of my gift I am already aware of. When connecting with loved ones who have passed over, at this time I can see them in my minds eye.. I have a feeling the next step to this would be seeing them in front of me (or around). Part of me is intrigued and knows its possible. The other part of me is freaked out about it!!

So I am going to have to sit on this dream a bit more as I have a feeling that I am not provided all the answers either in regards to my life and that this is something yet to come.

Also, Brooke777 has asked to be put on "hold" for a bit. Shes become extremely busy and is unable to do the blog giveaways in addition to her current work (portraits and her own clients) If you have any questions, please feel free to contact Brooke on her link below.

Some dreams can be disturbing

enough that they wake you out of a deep sleep! Last night my youngest pretty much slept through the night which was awesome. I just wish I could say the same thing. I was in a very deep sleep last night (I know cause when I did wake up I was so stiff from not moving a muscle! lol)

Fast forward to my dream. I was at this polar bear exhibit. There was quite a few of them and you could get really close. You were separated by a glass wall of some sort, but it pretty much felt like you were right in there with them. I have mentioned before that bears freak me out, so you can imagine how i was feeling being so close to them and only being separated by a glass wall!

Anyways, as we walked over this bridge to the other part of this exhibit, I realize that three people that were obviously tourists had gotten INTO the enclosure where the bears where swimming. They thought this to be really cool, and were inching their way closer trying to get a better look. I was like "oh my god, what the heck are they doing in there? Oh my gosh, someone get them out". The one polar bear that was the biggest noticed them and climbed out of the water and along the same embankment that these three people were on. They realized their horrible mistake and tried to start walking back to get out, only the bear was faster. After realizing that they were not going to make it out before the bear got them, they decided to try and reason with the bear? Each blaming each other for being in there and basically telling the bear to pick the other one first. It was really odd and disturbing at the same time. The bear of course grabbed the first one closest and with a big reach of its paw, threw the person against the glass wall and into the water. This is when everyone in the exhibit started to scream. I yelled to my husband to grab our eldest and face her away from what was obviously about to happen and he did. I turned to do the same to our youngest only to realize that she was no longer beside me, but had some how ended up in the enclosure with the bears!! This is when I screamed and tried to get over the glass, and when I woke up. I HATE dreams like that!

So I have been basically up since 5:30am, and our youngest decided shortly after she would join me.

As you all remember, I usually use www.dreammoods.com to interpret my dreams. As the years have gone by, I have figured out which dreams are worth looking into and which ones just to ignore as a "cooky" dream or related to something I was watching on the TV.

So I have done just that, and thought I would share the interpretation of this horrible dream.

To see a polar bear in your dream, signifies a reawakening.

White
White represents purity, perfection, peace, innocence, dignity, cleanliness, awareness, and new beginnings. You may be experiencing a reawakening or have a fresh outlook on life. However, in Eastern cultures, white is associated with death and mourning.

Water
To see water in your dream, symbolizes your unconscious and your emotional state of mind. Water is the living essence of the psyche and the flow of life energy. It is also symbolic of spirituality, knowledge, healing and refreshment. If the water is calm, clear, then it signifies that you are in tune with your spirituality. It denotes serenity, peace of mind, and rejuvenation.

Tourist
To see tourist in your dream, indicates how you are in a position to provide help to others.

Glass
To see glass in your dream, symbolizes passivity or protection. You may be putting up an invisible barrier to protect yourself in a situation or relationship.

To dream that you are looking through glass, represents your openness and non-defensiveness. Alternatively, you may be putting up an invisible emotional barrier around yourself.


Walls
To see a wall in your dream, signifies limitations. obstacles and boundaries. There is a barrier obstructing your progress. You may be too accustomed to your old habits and way of thinking.

To dream that you jump over a wall, suggests that you will overcome tough obstacles with success.

Bridge
To dream that you are crossing a bridge, signifies an important decision or a critical junction in your life. This decision will prove to be a positive change filled with prosperity and wealth in the horizon. Bridges represent a transitional period in your life where you will be moving on to a new stage. If the bridge is over water, then it suggests that your transition will be an emotional on

So these are the important parts of the dream. I am interested in hearing your possible interpretations.. what does it make you think? What do you feel? Any answer you give (there is no wrong answer - its your interpretation!) will be entered to win a family bypass reading from myself ($25.00 value)

Winner will be announced Sunday:)

Talking with your guides.. can be.. well ..simple..

I know so many of you would love to be able to talk to your guides. Have probably tried meditation as a way to connect. Have asked your guides to come to you in a dream and reveal certain directions.. There is yet another way that some of you might find simpler and easier.

You have to realize that your guides are with you 24/7. They are here to help you as best as they can without giving you all the answers. You may wish they would just hand over the cheat sheet already and tell you the answer, but all they seem to give are HINTS and clues to what you need to do. Sometimes we pay attention to the clues and signs they show us, other times we are just too busy too notice.

Well if your up for it, there are other ways of doing this as well. One of which is to actually ask (in your mind) questions that would result in a yes or no answer for them (which is the easiest to interpret). Now this has to be SPECIFICALLY related to something happening to you. Not a question you are asking about a friend.

Lets say you have this opportunity to invest with friends and your on the fence about it. You have so many good reasons to do it, but just as many reasons not too. Why not ask your guides for guidance? For example, if this situation was me, I would say (in my head) " Should I invest my money with Jane and John with this current project"? Then sit and wait. When I first started to do this, I actually would get a "pull" in my eye brows, kinda making them lift slightly up. I don't think that anyone on the outside would have noticed this, but I felt it. This meant "yes". If the answer was no I felt a pull or tightening in my chin area.. Down meant no. I know some people actually feel their eyes pull up or down based on the answer.. but if you keep trying it out with different questions that you know the answers to, you will see which way they are showing you the answers to the questions. If your not getting a complete indication of up or down, its because they do not want to give you the answer!!

If anyone has any questions about how this works, feel free to leave your question or comment in the comments section below and I will answer you:)

Congrats too.......

JOELLE!!! I actually had called my mom a few minutes ago to ask her to pick a number and she choose yours!! So congrats to you! Please email me at cheri22@gmail.com to claim your prize. You will need to put "blog contest winner" in the subject line.

Things here have been busy. My girls have been feeling a bit better with still a little bit of a cough. I am hoping really strongly that my littlest one will get a good nights sleep. Seems to be sporadic at best since shes gotten sick. Last night again I ended up sleeping on the couch with her at around 4am until just after 7am. So feeling tired tonight, have a bit of indigestion, but as long as I am not next to get sick then I am good to go! I keep telling myself "I am Healthy" and so far this has worked!!!

I am so happy that many of you decided to try and the manifesting of money coming your way. I am sure that there were others who tried it but perhaps did not want to participate in the blog contest. Hopefully its increased some money your way.

Well I know what it isn't!!!

As most of you know, my little ones are sick.. seems like a common theme over here during the more winter months. First my eldest had a fever and a cough, and then my youngest.. its not fun. I took both girls into the Dr on Monday who told me that they both had sore throats and gave them antibiotics.. the hard part of this is that they both have different ones. My eldest is allergic to the penicillin family so he had to give her something else. So trying to remember one kid getting it 4 times a day and the other 3.. its tricky!

Now lets fast forward to last night. My little one STILL had a fever. I called the nurse help line (811 here in BC) And they suggested I take her to the hospital. I was having a hard time getting the fever to break and stayed around 101-103. She was a mommy's girl the whole day and really did not do much and just wanted to sit in my lap. I dont blame her!

Today was not much different. I usually watch two other kids a few days a week during the day and had to cancel. My little one was not feeling well and I had figured I would take her into the emergency ward and find out if she had h1n1. (she has some of the symptoms).. Our dr does not work Wednesdays and the walk in clinics (which there are two I think) are HORRIBLE. After I picked up my eldest from the school off we went. It took about 2 hours, we all had to wear masks and because the little one would not we were put in a room off to ourselves.. Which was good. After finally seeing the Dr, he said they just had a really bad cold and to continue with the tylenol but perhaps "double dose" he said one time give her tylenol, and then 2 hours later give her the advil and then two hours after that tylenol..etc... We will see.. I did that tonight before bed. Hoping if she has a good sleep perhaps she can fight this! I hate seeing them sick! (also crossing fingers that I do not get it.. okay, using Elisabeth's technique.... I AM HEALTHY)

So that has been me in a nutshell.. We do NOT have H1N1 and will get the vaccinations (recommended by my Dr - although I still tend to be on the fence about this) I am slightly behind in readings (only a day) due to what has been going on here and with the little one not feeling well.

Dont forget, if you have not already, check out Elisabeth's post below and my give away post below that. You still have time to enter to win my family bypass reading just by trying to manifest money in your direction. I know people have already had success with trying. If you are unsure if your doing it right or have questions about it, please email me at cheri22@gmail.com with BLOG COMMENT in the subject line and I will try and get right back to you.

Manifesting 101: From Great Results to No Results-or Worse & Back To Best Results-Tips & Tricks!

Manifesting 101

Hi Everybody!

I am Elisabeth-the Psychic, Medium and Empath

who runs Lovelightandinsight.net. I am so happy to be writing here-and want to thank Cheri for the invitation.

Random events have prevented me being able to post this on the 30th as planned-though I had it basically finished and emailed it to Cheri as a draft--life had other plans keeping me away from a computer since Friday. Since everything works in divine timing-I will assume this information is most needed now- so here I am!

I wanted to offer more insight and information regarding manifesting and some different approaches on making it work for you--which also can relate to making predictions come true. I have had an interesting journey with manifesting--from seeing it work instantly--in the most incredible ways--to seeing it work in reverse and almost giving up--to finding a better method and seeing results for not only me--but my clients too.

As Cheri mentioned-I've had a lot of good luck with manifesting

in the past week especially-and within 4 days of putting a request out for 1,000$ I had in total received almost 5,000$ in the strangest ways. Though I didn't get to keep all of it (it was put in my account though)--the total I did keep was around 1,000$ and ended up being very important -and just what I had ordered!

You Know The Basics: Most Important Rule-Your Thoughts

There are many ways to manifest and & Cheri mentioned a couple ways that are great. Use whatever works for you and if its not working anymore-there is a reason. I'm guessing anyone who has tried this in the past may have had times when manifesting seems to work almost effortlessly--or maybe has never had much luck with it. There are many different ways to manifest-but no matter what you do-the key to seeing what you desire manifest itself in your life is based on ONE thing-your thoughts.

When I learned to manifest from a spiritual healer I used to see who specialized in" Co-Creation" as she called it-I was told the usual rules of the Law of Attraction that you are all probably familiar with about like attracting like and positivity attracting more positivity and vice versa.

I was blown away--and coming out of years of depression and wallowing in thoughts about the past-and guilt and thinking negatively about myself in every way possible. I didn't realize that my thoughts could even control my metabolism--and that maybe if I stopped saying "I have to have such a strict diet to be thin-my body gains weight so easily" and reversed it-my body would listen!

The Method I First Learned: Make Lists!

The way I was taught to manifest -which is also a good lesson in figuring out what you really want in life- is through making Lists. I learned all the basics about our thoughts, and affirmations-but was also taught to make lists about everything-the job I want, boyfriend, life, family life-everything was helped by a list of what my ideal _____ (fill in the blank) would look like. She taught me to always make a detailed list of what I want-and write or say what I want in life in the present tense-so, if you want to be wealthy you write (and/or say) "I am wealthy" rather than "I will be wealthy", or "I want to be wealthy." The wording and verb is important in each sentence-so never use a sentence with a negative like "I don't want to be poor"-any sentence containing the word you don't & want to be like. This will bring you more of that into your life and it’s easy to forget or get mixed up with your wording-and is the most common mistake I see- saying "I don’t want to be broke-I don't want to be sick" etc-are ways in which the world keeps themselves broke and sick. Look at the way you say your sentences-this is very

important--saying "I want to be wealthy" or "I need money" will keep you always in a state of

wanting or needing money-which is not what you want.

My First List: Instant Success! How:

Writing this out carefully--and becoming better at naturally saying things in the positive are the first step. The first thing I tried to attract was my "divine complement"- as my instructor called the right partner. She taught me to list every little thing I could ever want--nothing is too specific or silly or superficial-and be as detailed as possible. I started out with a very vague list like, "We enjoy doing the same things together" and made it into a very detailed list "My divine compliment's family and I love each other very much," " My divine compliment and I go on fun trips together all the time and travel-whether it’s a weekend get-away or trip overseas," "He is a great listener and interested in everything I have to say," "He is interested in the world and cultured, open minded and loves people-with total acceptance and love for all races, sexuality, and cultures," "He loves me for me-no matter what weight I am or how good I look-he loves ME."

I wrote about 50 other characteristics-including characteristics about education, political beliefs, lifestyle-you name it. Part of the point of the list is to keep you from dating guys who aren't good enough--or from accepting a job that doesn’t reward you for your talents-etc etc. The list is important to go through and have as a guideline when you meet someone and if they don’t have most of these things- you know he’s not the right person.

Well I made my list-put it on my dresser and let it go. I had not had a real relationship in years-or maybe-ever-looking back lol-this was in 2005 and I am with the person I met 2weeks later today and we have a 6 month old son, Miles.

I don't know if he is my true divine compliment-but he has EVERY little characteristic on that list. His family loves me and we are really close. Within the first year of our relationship I was taken to Costa Rica, St. Johns and Hawaii (I didn't spend a penny on any of them-one was with Bart-2 with his whole family )and he is the best listener ive ever met. He remembers things I told him years ago that I don’t even remember and could tell you what I ate for dinner 2 weeks ago Tuesday. Like I said- Although after 4 years I’m not sure if he is my divine compliment, but part of the point of the list is to realize what you want and don't want-so you stop settling and have a guideline for your future and your first list is rarely the right one. The funny thing is- every imperfection or problem in our relationship-or traits I could do without-are characteristics I did not put on my list-and I have a better idea of what I want if there is a next time.

This way of manifesting helps you manifest the RIGHT things. Because there is a saying, "be careful what you wish for-because it might come true" and often we aren't really sure what we want and bring the wrong things to ourselves because we don't have a good guideline or idea of what we want and what we can tolerate-or not tolerate in any situation. No person or job or or bestfriend will have EVERYTHING on your list--but if you have a history of dating men who are controlling, who are self-centered with relatives that are impossible to get along with-and you find someone who seems controlling-you know it’s not worth your time. Now if he has most of your characteristics but his mother is difficult and he leaves his socks all over the house--but he is a great cook just like you wanted--you're on the right track. This list can be used for any topic-and put whatever you want no matter how detailed.

Results: 100% success

I did a list for a boyfriend, a different job at my company at the time and for the new apartment/house of my dreams at that time ( for a beginner-it was a 400 square foot studio apartment in the location I wanted-which was difficult to find a place in for the right price)and I met my current partner and I found the apartment I wanted in the best location-and I was chosen for the apartment when over 50 people applied for one spot. I was also offered a job in Human Resources at UCSD within a week of that list- with the pay, people and work environment I requested. Each detail was fulfilled-the proximity to the beach with the apartment-the unconditional love from my boyfriend- down to my request that "My co-workers are fun to be around and I am always appreciated and thanked for what I do-no matter how small (because my old job I was not) a task I complete."

I literally--would hide my giggles and laughs at my new job- because my boss would thank me for something simple--like making copies-over and over..It was at the degree that--you would think I had just won The Nobel Peace prize for making 100 copies. .And though it was a temporary job they liked me so much they offered me extra months, I made 2 close friends and when I left they threw me a huge farewell party even though I was just a temp who had been there a few months. In Marketing, my old job, (this was right out of college) they paid me $12.18 an hour-I requested my new job pay 13.50$ or more--within a week I was offered the HR position which paid $14.00. My first week there--My now boyfriend--asked me on our first date and came to have lunch with me on Valentine’s Day. I shared details with my 2 new friends-who made work a blast even though it was mundane work-and was so much happier. It was a life changing period in my life.

I can honestly say-the time in my life when I learned the secrets of the law of Attraction-(this was way before the Secret) and how the universe works -led to one of the best times of my life.

When using the lists--Manifestations happened almost instantly!! Then I got comfy...

Problems I ran into:

As we tend to do--we get comfortable--life was good and I stopped trying to manifest as much or manage my thoughts.

I was happy...and stopped trying very often-for a while I felt like my manifestations stalled. A year later I began trying again but only once things were going wrong-and I was so obsessed with things changing- I worried about the issues I wanted to improve and It seemed like the more I tried to attract money the less money I had-I tried to manifest it every day and worried constantly.

More on this later, but be sure to state your intention and let it go, focusing too much or worrying about anything- whether it’s a prediction or manifestation will cancel it or push it further away because you are covering it with doubt. So when you have a prediction or reading-by I-or Cheri-or anybody-be sure to accept the predictions and be excited for them but not worry about it happening. If you get a bfp month of December-do NOT count the days till December and worry constantly about conception-and whether that will be "the month".

That is the best way to cancel or delay a prediction. State your desire-or write it-like "I am pregnant-and carrying a healthy happy baby-at the perfect time-we welcome this baby into our lives and trust in divine timing." Affirm you are pregnant in divine timing--and that you trust the universe to bring you your child in the best way for you both-because when babies come is often more up to them-then you-but that is for another time.

A New Method of Manifesting: After falling-Getting back up....

After my year of bliss-most of 2006- which began with my manifestations for a relationship, new job and cheap apartment in the best location happening immediately into the year- I got comfortable. For a while-I felt invincible. I even lost 25 lbs eating what I wanted- and not working out every day-and after a 10 year struggle with PCOS-it was gone. Still- I fell back to old habits and stopped working so hard on my thoughts. In September 2006--I developed a bad kidney infection-over that Christmas-I was really sick. In February 2007-I broke my back. I spent all of 2007 with a broken back in horrific pain--and I went from the happiest time in my life to the worst very fast. A year with a broken back while still going to school-working--then major spine surgery-and a 2 year recovery (I’m all better though-healed fast)-including a pregnancy-(with not one break-ever-baby was born 4-29-09)-was a very difficult time. I didn't take any time off-I somehow stayed in my year-round grad-program which is a very demanding medical program. I started my site shortly after I had back surgery-and achieved a lot of success while dealing with all this-including having a baby a little over a year after having metal plates and screws put into my lumbar spine and being unable to walk.

I had fallen off the manifesting wagon-all I felt was pain. All I thought about was pain--chronic pain ruins lives--and I can honestly say--It almost took mine away completely. I almost didn't believe anymore in any of this anymore-my manifesting was NOT working. I needed a new approach.

How did I manage?

THETA!!!!

I became a Theta Healing Practitioner in 2007-to try and help my recovery from back surgery. It is a modality based on training yourself to get into the Theta Wave brain state which makes you more aware, intuitive and makes healings and manifestations more likely to happen -even in an instant. My friend encouraged me to do a 3 day workshop--I was hooked--and did more. I had an instant talent for it and it’s changed my life

The statistics I have found for manifesting with Theta are,

"The spoken word is effective 30-40% of the time Visualizing is effective 50% of the time Theta wave manifesting is effective 80-90% of the time (www. thetahealing.com)."

This explains the instant and amazing changes clients see after a session and I’ve found Theta to be amazingly effective even done long distance-I've never met any of my clients and they see manifestations -like their husband being willing to discuss children-or job offers, etc within an hour of a live session.

In the craziness of this year I realized last weekend I hadn’t done Theta on myself in months. Last weekend I decided to try, and did things a little differently since my old attempts for myself had seemed to stall-at one point in 2006 I had ATM machines giving me extra 20's without charging me-to big financial stress from medical bills, back surgery, and my partner losing his job. The worst things became-the harder I tried to manifest money and it had not worked very well because I felt so badly like I needed it to work. Feeling NEEDY creates more need-I gave up.

I had almost stopped believing in manifesting for myself-the last couple years I had major financial setbacks which is when I started trying to manifest more money-it was like my manifesting made it worse. I stopped all together and haven’t tried to manifest any money this entire year-but I have trusted I'll always be ok--and be taken care of overall-and I have been. Although I haven't tried to manifest a certain amount-if we are short on rent the day of--I would still trust it will appear-and it would.

Last weekend-instead of trying to manifest a million dollars like I had loved to do before (another tip-start with something more real to you) since I was taught-we can have it all-so I put out I had an extra 1000$ while in Theta, since it is rent time and I forgot all about it. I did this last Friday-first time in almost a year-forgot all about it-and on Saturday Bart (my boyfriend) calls me over to the computer with a stunned look on his face.

When he logged onto my online banking, to my checking account, it had an extra back account with my name on it--but all this money that wasn’t mine. ..I transferred 200$ to my account and it worked=it even said my phone # was the primary account holders number....Still-although a few thousand dollars suddenly appeared in my account-I had a bad feeling about this $-like it would be discovered soon and decided to hold off on using this money because bank errors like this are usually found. At the same time-I was in a bind last weekend and don’t know what I would have done if it hadn’t been available.

I left most of it in the account untouched and found out what happened this week-and though everything is fine I sure am glad I didn't take more--but what I did take of the extra $ ended up being a life saver. The situation has been resolved now- and Next time I will make sure to specify that its money I get to KEEP.

Then-On Wednesday--something from Blue Cross arrived in the mail. They were my health insurance company until October 1st when it was cancelled and I’ve been without insurance since. Inside was a 487$ check--with no explanation! We were thrilled! I couldn't believe it! We were overjoyed and were able to come up to San Francisco to visit Bart's family for the weekend like we had planned-but cancelled due to cost-which enabled him to work while we were there-helping more.

The shock--The joy--The excitement-of seeing it work-was amazing!! What arrived so suddenly--was massive-how could this not be the result of manifesting?

Remember 2 Important Rules: No "HOW"s and Don't be stingy!

In my initial great period of manifesting-2006- -money arrived with no explanation-100$ from my car insurance due to "overpayment" the year before--60$ from the atm when I asked for 40$--it happened all the time at one point-and I feel like I'm back in the right state to increase it even more.

One of the most important things to remember when doing this--is doing worry about HOW you will get money or the job or the boyfriend--People say "well where would the money come from? that can’t happen"-don't do that--money can come from ANYWHERE-and there is plenty of it. Believe in that.

All in all-if you count what was put into my account that I could have taken but didn't plus the check-I manifested 5,000$ in 4 days. I kept about 600$ of it-like I said the bank error is another story-but was it a coincidence? I don't think so!

Also-when you are attracting money-spend money! Don't be stringy-especially to other people! There is nothing that makes me crazy more than a bad tipper-or people trying to make off with free stuff.

How will anyone ever pay you the amount you want-if you don't value anyone else's time and want to pay them generously? Will you be paid generously-without doing the same?

No.

I tip 20% standard at restaurants for poor service-30% for good or more-always have even before this. I've had 2$ in my checking account and given 1$ to a homeless person. My 2$ was my gas money-but I knew they needed it more and received $ that day. Acts like this show you trust in the universe and its abundance.

Gratitude: You can try to manifest the salary you want till the cows come home--but if you are not sharing gratitude to others for their services for you-no one will appreciate yours either-and it will block your attempts.

Asking for free stuff when you could buy it or holding onto your money too tightly sends out a bad message.

When manifesting money-SPEND $! It shows you know there is plenty to go around. Be generous-too many perpetuate lack by not tipping enough or asking for discounts because you think you doesn’t have enough. Realize all that you do which keeps you in this state-and you will not receive-till you give.

People know too-when you are trying to make off with more and will give less in return.

You are more likely to get free things by showing gratitude.

I always offer discounts to those I can tell value my time-but truly do not have the means-and need the help. I know who really can get it but is holding on--or who is trying to get me to go as many minutes over the reading as possible to see what they can get for free or some even with me saying "I have to run-we are way over and Miles is crying"-and keep asking questions hoping to squeeze more out of me.

The person who spends their money on a full price session -and appreciates it and saw how much it benefitted them-mentioned their appreciation but difficulty paying for more-and received 3 more at a huge discount-while the ones who have tried to make off without valuing my time are still looking for a job to pay them more with no luck.

Start with tipping everyone you can-even if you only have 10$ to your name-give others 3$. You are showing your faith and you get what you give-and it feels good (though maybe scary at first).

Manifesting is about pretending you already are something-to bring it to you and make it REAL.

You can't become prosperous while being a tight-wad.

Value others and their time so others will value yours.

This applies to not just money-if you want love-give love. If you want respect-respect others.

Rejoice in everyone elses acheivements and you will see how much life can change when instead of thinking "How did she afford that car-she doesn't deserve it" you think "How nice of her to get that car-she deserves something nice."

My Process: Best Way to Manifest (From my experience-you will find your own) that I have found for me...Combo:

The only reason I have believed in Theta's assistance in Manifesting-is because of what I see happen with clients. So I highly suggest making your list--and then, if you meditate or know how to get into a meditative state-do so, and say in your mind this mantra-which is what I do:

"Creator-It is commanded that I see an instant manifestation of _______ in my life now (state what it is you want--like 1000 dollars-or good health.). In the Highest and Best way (meaning make this happen in a positive way-you don’t want to get a million dollars from a car accident settlement-so you want it to be in a good way), with Ease and Grace-It is done it is done it is done-Show me (imagine this happening)- THANK YOU, Thank you, Thank you."

Now imagine you are up above in the sky-looking down on your life. See your neighborhood--your house-your work place--imagine you have a great big arm or wand-reach down into this life you are watching from above-and create the event you want to happen. Visualize you opening the mail and finding a check-feel how you would feel-or see yourself meeting the man or woman of your dreams.

Visualizing-while in a semi Theta state (if you are mediating)-in addition to a list or even without--has had the best effects ever I have found.

I never thought I could influence a client’s husband or wife’s life for the better-or help create instant changes.

I didn’t' realize how great Theta really was for manifesting--until I had a client who during a live session mentioned how much her husband needed a new job. He had been applying for new jobs with no response--and he had NO clients no matter what he did at the law office he worked for. On top of that--the clients he did have owed him money. I explained this to her--and recited some of the affirmations or commands for manifesting I would use for him. I suggested the list-plus positive thinking-and I did a command for them. I also told her I saw a major corporation offering him a job soon if she did this too-and that it began with Gold-and seemed like a bank that may be in Germany. At our next session a week later-not only had Gold sacks called and offered him a job interview after months of not being able to get one-but tons of clients appeared needing his services-and old ones began paying him what they owed. She was amazed! And -she didn’t even tell him about our session or the Law of Attraction-WE manifested it for him

During the session-she said she tried to be more positive the next week but didn’t' follow the guidelines for manifesting-but somehow that session set things into motion-and it has happened COUNTLESS times-I see it almost every time with clients.

How did I affect him? Since I was in the Theta state during the session-and she wanted this for him too-it was of positive intentions and good for their family-so, it all came together. She had been worrying so much-and admitted to not smiling for months-she was sick with worry about him getting work-simply changing that changed their future.

And that is what I do in each session-and tell everyone to do-the list first-then when they are ready and open to meditating-the Theta Command.

Predictions, Readings and Manifesting

So-there are some examples on how I like to manifest and some methods you might try-with my experience with Manifesting over the course of a few years.

The list is great for any topic-and it’s also helpful to set it out somewhere where you will see it. I put my divine compliment list on my dresser with a red and pink candle next to it to represent love and attraction. For your new job-put the salary you want, how co-workers treat you, how you feel driving to work, and what city it’s in.....Nothing is too specific unless based on total superficial needs.

In terms of your predictions in readings- remember-many predictions are about things you would like to manifest in your life. #1 rule to allowing predictions and manifestations to happen is to let it go-worrying and obsessing about something you tried to manifest surrounds what you want with doubt --making it less likely to happen.

If you are ttc-why is it that everyone seems to conceive while on a "break"? Most of the time- it’s happened now because they are finally letting it. We often push away what we desire most without even realizing it-they stopped pushing it away by obsessing over it- and relaxed, allowing it to happen. Obsessing creates DOUBT in something happening-remember that!

Don't Limit Yourself: Or I mean- You can have it all! (no negatives!)

You CAN have it all of you want....The idea that we are supposed to suffer and life is hard is wrong-Although there are difficult times for all of us -those are usually very important times for our transformation and growth as people-and some difficulty cannot be avoided. However- most of our lives are a reflection of our thoughts-and manifesting is a great way to learn to control your thoughts, figure out what it is you REALY want and bring that to you.

The Sky is the limit--no matter what I encourage you to live with that belief. Nothing is too good-no achievement is too high of an honor-no love or prosperity is too great for you.

Why don't you deserve it all?

Why do they deserve happiness more than you?

Why are we so scared to be happy? Tough question--but why do we punish ourselves? Who says you can't be whatever you want to be?

Remember--whether you think you can-or think you can't--You are RIGHT.

Be open to anything in manifestations and predictions-Don't say "well I wanted to be nurse-I will not be a famous singer though I do love singing" -you can doubt me-I had someone yesterday tell me they just booked a trip to Europe-and she can't believe I was right. In her 3 readings I said I saw her going to Europe by this summer and every time she said she didn't believe me one bit. You never know. And I've had people say "I have no plans to go there-you're wrong"....Just wait!

If you had told me-in 2005-that in 2009 I would be seeing a little hobby turned business I began for free turning into a career-from an online website-as a PSYCHIC-I would have NEVER believed you. I would have thought you were nuts! Me??

I was like most-putting myself down--and thinking it was conceited or rude to believe I deserved the best.

If you had told me I would have producers contacting me-about a reality show-based on my work-I would have said you were more than nuts--and completely ignored your prediction-but wanted it to be true.

I couldn't be that kind to myself--to believe I could deserve good like that or recognition for anything-though I secretly dreamed of being my own boss and healing people-and enrolled in Acupuncture school to heal others but-I never thought it would be what I have today-and I never thought I would have such an amazing business this young-of my own creation!

You Never Know What Could Happen-Life is Funny-Just go with the flow and Make it GOOD funny! Life can work for you-or against you and you decide which way it goes....

The less you try to control and more you believe in good and trust the universe-the easier life is.

I never really have had plans--my life plan since I was young has been to study--learn--and focus on topics I love--with the belief its bound to take me somewhere good and create a happy life. My college degree-Masters degree-are both unused now-and I was often asked what I would do with a Bachelor in Anthropology and History-and I said "Who knows-but I like it"-enjoying what we do is one of the most important ways to bring positivity to you. If you love what you do-it will succeed eventually. A Chinese Proverb Parsons lived by to measure success was- "If you feel like quitting for good- you're probably almost there!"For finding careers- I always recommend beginning with your favorite hobby or topic to read about and starting there. Bill Parsons-multimillionaire and CEO of 7 different companies he founded from scratch that are all billion dollar companies now-says this in his rules for success. He liked computers, motorcycles and "hot chicks “and found a way to incorporate all 3 into his business and says the only way to succeed is if you love what you do. He has made 7 businesses succeed based on this theory-and is an admired entrepreneur. I'm finding how true that is--love and passion make one business succeed over another without it. I just needed to take limits off of myself -which most of you do too.

Your first list may have a job as a manager of a bank--your third--as CEO.

It can happen-you can have it all.

You NEVER know what can happen for you-life works in funny ways...

--I would have never believed I'd be writing for Cheri's blog-when I got a prediction from her in 2007-when I wasn't ttc, had no plans to ttc-and had no clue how gifted I was as a psychic-I just felt drawn to her site. And I got a prediction with no plans to ttc for 10 years--and continued with those plans--but my little feeling someone had other plans was right.

Somehow Miles made his way here--a year after her prediction which was right just a different year-and really surprising too since we thought we had that prevented-but things rearranged themselves to allow Miles to come-and although I had my site up for 6 months before I became pregnant with him-my pregnancy took my abilities to a new level-and from this I found my true calling and am doing what I never dreamed I could do.

Do I care that I just spent 130,000$ on student loans and worked my tail off for 4 years in graduate school to drop out one semester short (most likely this is my last)?
No-I feel lucky I got to do something I enjoy will discovering my true calling and I learned so much that helps me with my wok.

Stop wanting to be someone else or trying for "Perfect":

You will feel a million times better when you stop comparing yourself to others.

I have a lot of work to do-on myself-on my life-we all do. I'm nowhere close to perfect-but--you know what? Perfection is boring. Who likes perfect? We are all perfect-and our lives are perfect-as they are....because everything is timed and planned and will have meaning someday....We rarely let ourselves be happy with our lives--to be proud of yourself.

Stop beating yourself up-and comparing yourself to others--

Just say- I'm good for now and proud of myself.

We are all works in progress-but trusting in a good and a positive future-and believing you deserve the best-while treating others well (as you would like to be) and manifesting with no limits-

Will make your dreams come true. .....

And that’s my Manifesting 101 blog!

I think I covered enough loll!! I hope it helped to see some different techniques I tried and what held me back--and what helped me move forward-and how POWERFUL it can be-when done right.
I wanted to tackle the importance of a few basics-and reinforce that you do not limit yourself.

Any technique recommended by Cheri or anyone else you like is a great idea-I suggest trying different things and seeing what brings fast results.

If you don't have experience with manifesting yet-maybe starts with something small-like "I find a dollar somewhere every day." I know people who find hundreds of dollars on the ground--all the time-but started with a dollar which is something believable. You could also look for feathers-which are messages from angels and a great way to start.

Seeing it work for you is the best way to keep it working for you-because then you believe.

Thank You! If you have any questions about manifesting, my readings or healings-or anything-my email is lovelightandinsight@gmail.com and my website is Lovelightandinsight.net.

And remember--YOU CAN HAVE IT ALL!!! Why shouldn't you? Why should anyone else--but not you? Believe this--that you deserve the best--because you do.

Start seeing yourself as the gift that you are-and love you first and foremost. The more you love yourself-the more you will find love and abundance around you-and loving people supporting you. Manifestations become bigger and better the more love you are surrounded with.

If you take anything from this--just know that you do bring things to you and if you are trying to manifest your divine compliment or happiness--it has to start with you loving you.

I'll leave you with some of my favorite affirmations to say since it is all encompassing-say this 1 time or 100 times day-days when I recite my affirmations in the morning are always better days filled with more magic.

I at least ask you to look in the mirror and say "I love you" every day this week (I know I know--cheesy--but we are so cruel to ourselves-I would know)-and next week I will be having a contest related to this blog.

So-a favorite affirmation of my clients-

"I am happy, healthy, powerful and abundant. I am love, light, wisdom and healing energy. Everyday-in every way-my life gets better and better. " It will become true for you.

Love and Light to You:

Elisabeth

Lovelightandinsight.net

Thank you!!!!!!! See you next time!