Open Blog Night - FAQ About Giving a Reading

I know that some of you are interested in doing readings for others, or even opening up your own gifts your yourself and loved ones. I have located this information online and thought others might be interested in reading it as well. I did not write this, but do agree with what is written:)
If you have any questions about what this is about, please leave a message in the comments section and I will do my best to answer them for you:)

Q: Why can't I read for myself?
A: Some people can read their own time lines, most cannot. You will be influences by your own emotional needs.

Q: How many times can I ask the same question?A: The first answer received is correct
Q: Is there a particular way to place the cards that is best?A: After a while you will find a way that is comfortable for you. With Tarot most prefer the Celtic Cross.
Q: How seriously should I take my readings?A: You bring forth information. There is still free will. The person will decide what to do with the information after you present it. Being a psychic reader is truly a major responsibility as you are helping souls find / shape their destines. This is not to be taken lightly.
Q: Does being a psychic reader make me spiritual?
A: No! I have found that the way you live your life makes you spiritual. Many people who are spiritual never read for others. I have found that all spiritual people are psychic- but all psychic people are not spiritual. They just seek answers. There is no right or wrong.

Q: If I get a feeling of death or serious illness around someone when reading them, should i say anything?A: If you are a beginner, NO! Do not get into very heavy issues.
Q: Are time frames accurate?A: Mostly they are general. As spirit does live in space / time they usually will not give exact dates. When they say "soon", they can mean in five years.
Q: How should I know when and how much to charge?
A: There is no set fee. Some people read for free. It is OK to charge though. Start low and the right price will find you. Spirit will guide you. Many people who love your reading will tip. When I start to get tips after each reading, I know that spirit is tell me that it is time to raise my prices.

Q: What happens if the time passes and my predictions never comes true?
A: "Free Will" could have altered the time lines. Other situations and people could have altered it. Don't take it personally. There are many factors at play now in the universe.

Q: What should I say someone asks me to use my psychic gifts to change their destiny?
A: Say NO, bad karma for all concerned.

Q: Can I change my set of Tarot cards from one brand to another?
A: Work with whatever feels comfortable

Q: Can I create my own oracle of divination?
A: Of course. Many people do.

Q: Can other people listen to the reading I give?
A: That is between you and the client. I do all readings in private. I do not like the influential energies of others in the room.

Q: Will the quality of my readings improve?A: Yes! As you open up more you will become more clairvoyant and clairaudient to a point where you only use the cards because people think they are a necessary part of the reading.
Q: Will I get weird sensations related to the reading - chills, flushes, pressures in chakras?
A: Some people do, the sensitives. Others don't!

Q: Can I read someone while talking to them on the phone? In a chat room? Email?
A: Yes. You are taping into their frequency! Go for it!

Q: If I read by phone should I get paid first?
A: Always.
Q: In person?
A: Whatever feels comfortable. I wait until we are finished.

Q: Can anyone learn to read?
A: Yes

Q: Would you suggest people try?
A: If they are balanced, yes. If they are emotionally trouble that will reflect in their readings.

Q: What if the answers are not what the person wants to hear?
A: State them anyway. The person will then walk away feeling that you are inept. So what! No ego stuff here! And no arguing! If the person is unbalanced, don't read them. You do not have the skills nor experience to know what to do. They will make you feel inferior so you will question your talents. Don't let a dysfunctional person do that to you.

Q: Can I read better for some people than others?
A: Some people build walls either because they want to challenge you or out of fear as they have deep secrets. If you feel they are too blocked for you, just stop. When I get into this situation, I see the walls, I knock the walls down psychically then read. I also tell the person what I have done. You can also tell the person that you are there to help them not challenge them. Therefore they should shape up or leave!

Q: Do I read better, more clearly, on some days than others?
A: Yes. It depends on the factors in your life.

Q: Is it easier to read some people better than others?
A: Yes. Some people you may not be able to read at all. It is all about tuning your frequency in with theirs, like tuning into a TV or radio. Some stations are beyond your range!

Q: Are women better readers than men ?
A: There is no discrimination due to gender, race, age, sexual preference

Q: Can predicting something in a reading, allow it to manifest in the physical?
A: Only the people involved with the event can make it manifest into third dimension. The psychics I know, who see death and destruction, are never happy about their visions or dreams, but usually have no way of stopping them. These visions usually manifest within a three week period [three=3D]. Many people may dream about an event, or get a message about it in meditation, (usually about a tragedy), but they will not be able to prevent the event from occurring.

Q: If someone asks me try to manipulate the outcome of the reading, occult stuff, should I say No?
A: Do not read someone who is looking for you to manipulate anything with spells, rituals, or anything like that. Many people come from backgrounds that encourage psychic manipulation or attack, voodoo and such. Avoid at all cost.

update - going to be one of those days!

This weekend was fairly good. I like to get together with some friends of mine once in awhile and we go out for dinner and then go to the one girls house and make some cards. I like making cards or even scrap booking, so its nice to just go out and have some fun, since its not very often we get to do this. My MIL watched our daughter for the night so she could have some quality time. Its still not much better with my relationship with my MIL. Not sure if everyone remembers about our big spat right before Christmas. Things are just kinda left unsaid at times, and perhaps that's better. I tend to avoid her when I can, and only deal with her a limited amount. She even told me about 2 weeks ago that I was getting fat:( She was pointing out how Dh's cousin who is due in march, is carrying out all front and does not even look pregnant from behind and then says "not like you, you seem to be gaining it all over!"

I could not believe my ears. I was 21 weeks pg at this time she said it, she even had me stand with my back to my dh so she can point it all out. I was mad. I even explained that if she saw me naked (which she NEVER will! lol) that at this point I have gained it in the front only. Not saying I wont gain it on the sides or get bigger, but at this point, this is where it is. Explained I was wearing a friends maternity pants, because at 21 weeks and 2 days was the first day I could no longer wear my REGULAR clothes!

here is my pic at 21 weeks!

Anyways, as you can see, she still rubs me the wrong way and its really hard to not take some things she says to heart, and rather just walk away. When she calls, I literally don't answer the phone and this is really hard for me, as I ALWAYS answer the phone! lol. So its a lesson I am still trying to deal with on where she fits in with my life and how to deal with her.

I've been really tired lately, which i guess is to be expected. I am completely ready to just go off from work now, but committed to staying at least until the end of April, so will stick to that. Would hate to leave my co-worker in the lurch with not the proper training to completely take over.

I have been pre-scheduling the predictions, so that everyone knows when to expect their completed reading, so at this point, I am still working on schedule, not behind with the dates that have been promised, and hoping in the next 3-4 days to actually be ahead of the scheduled dates. I do the majority of my predictions at night, usually from 9pm till 11pm and sneak in while i am at work from time to time if its slow (like today)

Its snowing presently where I live, we are expecting to have at least 10cm tonight, and right now, its got light flurries. So hoping that we get 10 FEET and I can call in "sick" to work tomorrow! lol. For those of you that know, I am in Canada, but on the west coast, and getting anything more than a few inches is very uncommon, so the call for 10FEET I am sure will be impossible! lol.

Anyways, if anyone has a inspirational storey they would like to share with Wednesdays post, I do trade a prediction bypass portion (8.00 Value) for any stories that are posted. Just email cheri22@gmail.com with "inspiration" in the subject line. Can be anything about life and does not have to do with just trying to conceive.

As well, tomorrow is "open blog night" so if anyone has something that they would like to know more about, whether its to do with opening their own gifts, or other things, just post them in the comments section of this post and will pick one for tomorrow nights blog post:)

Best wishes!

"Ask Jeni"

As mentioned previously, my friend Jeni is very good with knowing things about fertility. Not only about herself, but just seems to be well knowledged on this subject and has agreed to do "ask jeni" once a month.
She is NOT a fertility expert nor should you take her own opinion/advice she gives over that of your doctors. She is doing this to provide insight, hope and to perhaps give you another direction to look into when trying to conceive.

In the comments section, the first three people who post questions for Jeni will be answered. I am not sure if Jeni will have time to answer any otheres, but will do her best, and will answer at least the first three. She will either have the comment/reply posted in the comment section, or if you prefer it can be done through email (leave your email address)

I will announce the winner for yesterdays blog contest later tonight!

Blog contest - Connecting with loved ones who have passed on

Well, tonight I am posting a bit late for the contest to win a two question tarrot reading by brooke777. Normally I would like to have this posted earlier in the day so that people have more time to participate, but today has been an otherwise busy day for me, and I feel tired, so wasn't able to get it done till right now. With that being said, I will leave the contest open from now, until 3pm Tomorrow before posting the "ask jeni" information... In that space will also announce the winner.

Todays contest is about learning how to connect with loved ones who have passed over. There are many different ways of doing this, and can be done on how your most comfortable with. When i do it, I make sure that I am in a room without distractions, I ask the persons first name of who they wish to contact, and then just start typing out a "memory" as if I had known the person all along. Giving personality information, giving description of looks, certain aspects. I can't control what is given, and can not prevent if someone sneaks into the reading and comes in first. Little information, sometimes tons of information, really depends on how determined the loved one is to come through and what they have to say. Its all about interpretation, on what images/feelings and connections you are being shown and does take practice.

With that being said, although this challenge is more "difficult' for some, everyone who participates will be entered in the draw for this reading by brooke777.I will also allow one person to win a sibling express prediction from myself, so thats TWO Winners for tonight/tomorrow!!!

here is how you participate. As usual, you need to leave your answer/information in the comments section of this post. Your first name and an email address to contact you with.

The person I want you to try and bring forth, is my own grandfather JAMES. He should come willingly, not because I have asked him to or anything, but because I know that he is around sometimes and should be easy to pull through. I am not going to tell you what to ask him, just ask him to come forward, and then tell me anything you see/feel connected to him.

As mentioned, there is no wrong way to do this, and EVERYONE who participates from now until 3pm (Pacific standard time) will be entered into the draw to win one of two readings being offered up tonight:)

As mentioned previously, the blog comments section is "moderated' due to some recent spamming of some wierd guy, so if it does not show up right away, just check again later, I will publish the comments as soon as I can:)

Good luck!

PS, dont forget, tomorrow is also "Ask Jeni"!!

Shhhh......I've got a secret......

okay, its not really just a secret that I know, but I am sure that there are countless others that already know "the secret", and just felt compelled to share it with all of you, for those who have not really understood what the hype was all about, or even bothered to look more into it.



I have been doing "the secret" even before I ever even heard of its existence. Its basically using the laws of attraction, and having things come your way. Does it work? Yes, it does. Positive thinking is a very powerful thing as is mind over matter. I know some people might think, well if I want a car, and i see the car, and I envision the car, where is it? Well, as you know, we can't always have what the want, but there are always things that will try to happen for you in order for you to get it.

I really believe that things like this can also help with conceiving as well. I use positive affirmations with most things in my life. From getting a particular job I really wanted, to having money come in when I need it. I even posted some positive thinking excesses to be used after having intercourse for conceiving purposes. It really does work! I conceived BOTH TIMES using this method. I know other things are factored into this, but if you could just turn the tables in your favor even slightly, wouldn't you give yourself all the help you can get?

I think that thinking negative also does the same thing, so ask that while ttc, dont think about "oh I can't conceive' because its taking you longer than you expected. The more negative wording and thinking you use, the more your body responds to your messages.

I know along time ago, when I didn't want to work, I would get myself feeling "sick", headaches, feeling nauseous, and was able to tell my boss I wasn't feeling well and wanting to go home. It was to the point that I really was feeling sick and just needed out of there. When I left, started home, I felt fine. All symptoms gone! Mind over matter.

Our lessons in life will always remain the same, what is not set in stone, is how we get there.

What I have done is put a youtube clip on the lower right of this page, where you can click on it, and view the youtube videos of some of the secret. The biggest suggestion is to either rent the video (libraries have this) or read the book!

If you have any questions about this at all, post in the comments section and I will try my best to answer them with what I know and understand about this:)

And dont forget!!! Thursday is the day to give away another reading from Brooke777 (2 questions done by tarrot reading) and Friday is "ask jeni" where the first three people to post their questions in the comment section, will be able to expect an answer from Jeni. Shes not a fertility expert, but is someone who is VERY knowledgeable in this field and will answer your questions to the best of her ability, or point you in the direction you need to go to find the answers.