I think that this goes without saying for most things in life. I think that when your really focused on something and your really stressing about it, things can be delayed. I have mentioned this to TONS of women that sometimes with all of the "obsessing" with ttc, that sometimes it can do more harm than good. Its great to pay attention to ovulation, practice positive thinking and be aware of changes in your body that show things might be happening, but sometimes when you make it all about those things, your body gets "stage fright!"
I know i have posted this before, but there are a few ways of doing this, that allow your body to stay in tune, not freak out, and not delay the conception (baring any fertility issues) Mostly is about remaining positive, telling yourself that your feeling realized and ready for this baby, that your not going to stress out about when the baby is ready to come and your going to enjoy your ttc efforts. The more you focus on being positive, the less your body feels "threatened" With the pressure placed upon it. I normally post stories of inspiration on Wednesdays, but felt we can all use a good one on the weekend!
I have some exciting news to share... After about two years of TTC off and on, we finally got our BFP on Saturday! I'm still in shock but over the moon happy. It's funny because I believe the last time we wrote you mentioned to wait and see after our trip to Spain and maybe it would happen. Sure enough it did. And the funniest part is it happened the old fashioned way...we've tried so many things - pre-seed, opks, cbfm, lying down, instead cup afterwords...i could go on and on. and ironically what worked was doing nothing at all! it's so true that in some cases it takes the woman relaxing for it to happen. I've been visualizing the baby being wrapped in a bow and taken care of - i believe i read that on your blog way back when. It's funny because I'm not even concerned about loss - i have a great feeling about our little bean!
Thanks for all of your predictions...and good luck again
Laurie
I also believe that things happen when you least expect it, for other areas of your life. When it comes to love, or work related situations, seems when your focused on finding another job, you can't seem to find the one your looking for, or the love of your life, seems everyone you date is that "loser" you have always heard about! lol.... it always seems that when you "allow' The universe to move things around to suit you, that it happens when your more relaxed and "ready" for this to happen in your life. I also find that loved ones who have passed over, are always trying to be helpful, but when they can sense you as stressed (usually this gives off a bit of a yellowish type glow to your aura) they tend to sit back and wait until your more relaxed before they start trying to "help". They dont want to overload you!
This weekend here in Canada is a long weekend for us, and the first sunny may long weekend that I can remember. Most people have taken off camping, and they often refer to this as the may "24" long weekend, even though it doesn't always land around the 24th of the month. I think that it has to do more so with the "drinking" aspect of a 24case of beer! lol. (I'm not a drinker so can only assume! lol)
We had my daughters 5th birthday party yesterday. Shes officially 5 as of yesterday! This morning, she took off running around the house, and stopped dead in her tracks and looked up me with amazement. This is when she informed me, that now shes 5, shes faster than anyone! Took off running again with her new found "speed" lol. Apparently one day will do that for you! lol
As always, if you have a storey to share of an encounter, or storey of inspiration, I always trade a prediction bypass (8.00 value) to the person it was submitted from (if published on the blog) I will also do this for any ttc tricks, or if you have found ways to strengthen your own psychic gifts that others might find useful too, always interested. You can always email to cheri22@gmail.com and please write "BLOG COMMENT" in the subject line so it does not get buried with other requests. You dont have to have your name published if you do not want.
Best wishes
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