iamcheri22: My mom just died.....

Tuesday, March 9, 2010

My mom just died.....

Posted by Cheri22

I know a horrible way to start off the topic, but it is what it is. Tonight I got a call from her husband saying that she was having a heart attack and that the ambulance paramedics were working on her and trying to revive her. After 20 minutes still no luck. I made it to surrey where she lived and went to the hospital but it was too late... she was already gone.

There is more to the storey, but its 2am and just got home and really dont have my head on straight.. for those of you who are waiting for readings, or for your payments to be scheduled or even the free and winning readings.. please accept my apologies for the delay.. I am not sure if its going to be a day or two before I can feel back into the swing of things as I know my mom would not want me to put my life on hold.

More to follow.
Best wishes

24 comments:

Anonymous said...: Please do take some time I know how hard it is to lose your Mum.I understand this must be a shock to you and you need this time to get your head around it all.Thinking of you
Lorna; March 9, 2010 at 2:19 AM
Anonymous said...: Something I wanted to share

Don't think of her as gone away
her journey's just begun,
life holds so many facets
this earth is only one...
Just think of her as resting
from the sorrow and the tears
in a place of warmth and comfort
where there are no days and years.
Think how she must be wishing
that we could know today
how nothing but our sadness
can really pass away.
And think of her as living
in the hearts of those she touched...
for nothing loved is ever lost..
and she was loved so much.
Take care.
Lorna; March 9, 2010 at 2:28 AM
Anonymous said...: Please for your sake definitely take as much time you want for yourself, you've been through a lot in the past couple weeks. I'm truly very for your loss from the bottom of my heart. You are in my thoughts hun

Amanda; March 9, 2010 at 4:05 AM
Anonymous said...: Oh Cheri, so sorry for your loss. Wow, completely hurting for you right now. Take all the time you need for your heart to heal with the recent events that have happened in your life. God bless you and your family.
Katrina; March 9, 2010 at 4:18 AM
*I am the Veteran, and the Wife* said...: I am so sorry.. (((hugs))); March 9, 2010 at 4:30 AM
Suzie said...: I am so so sorry. You've had so much loss these past few weeks! You are in my thoughts and prayers during this time.; March 9, 2010 at 4:39 AM
Anonymous said...: Cheri, I'm sorry for your loss, my thoughts are with you and your family.....; March 9, 2010 at 5:03 AM
Anonymous said...: I'm sorry Cheri. You'll be in my thoughts and prayers. Danielle T.; March 9, 2010 at 5:18 AM
jaysdream said...: Cheri, Sorry for the sudden lost of your mother. Take as much time that is needed. May God be with you and your family.; March 9, 2010 at 6:47 AM
Sarah said...: so, so sorry for your loss; March 9, 2010 at 7:27 AM
Life said...: So sorry for your loss. Thinking of you and your family.; March 9, 2010 at 7:30 AM
Anonymous said...: Cheri,

I am so sorry for your loss! Please accept a big hug from me. Please take your time...we understand. Even though your mom would want to you carry on, you still need your time to grieve and make sense of it all. Take care Cheri and y'all are in our thoughts and prayers.; March 9, 2010 at 8:49 AM
Jaclin said...: Forgot to add my name to my post I just did.....Love, Jaclin; March 9, 2010 at 8:50 AM
brooke777 said...: Oh Cheri I'm so sorry to hear this. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
-Brooke; March 9, 2010 at 9:07 AM
Anonymous said...: Oh my goodness, Cheri my heart is stuck in my throat. I am so so sorry to hear this news.I will pray for you and your family.; March 9, 2010 at 9:18 AM
Krystal said...: I am so sorry. Take all the time in the world you need. [hug]; March 9, 2010 at 9:30 AM
Miranda said...: Cheri,
I am so sorry to hear of your lost. Mom's are so very special, make sure you take as much time as you need. My thoughts are with you and your family during this difficult time.
Miranda; March 9, 2010 at 2:30 PM
Katie said...: Don't try to just be strong and put it all behind you and move forward without taking time to greive. It has a nasty way of coming back at you when you least expect. Take care of yourself!; March 9, 2010 at 4:00 PM
Unknown said...: Oh Cheri I am so sorry for your loss!!! Huggles.

I hope that you and your family are finding a way to be there for eachother through the greiving and loss.

I am also sorry that you werent able to say goodbye before she was gone. That is what happened with my mom. My aunt and dad called to say my mom was having heart palpatations and needed to be intubated.. so my hubby and I scrambled to figure out how to get home to here (8 hours away). By the time we were on the road we got another call and she had already passed. My hubby had to pull over cause even he started to cry. It just doesnt seem fair does it.

I wanted to share a poem that my mom sent to me before she passed as something she wanted read at her funeral. It still makes me smile when I read it because I know she is in each word and idea through out! I hope it can give you some comfort too!
~~~
When I'm Gone

When I come to the end of my journey
And I travel my last weary mile
Just forget if you can, that I ever frowned
And remember only the smile.
Forget unkind words I have spoken
Remember some good I have done.
Forget that I ever had heartache
And remember I've had loads of fun.
Forget that I've stumbled and blundered
And sometimes fell by the way.
Remember I have fought some hard battles
And won, ere the close of the day.
Then forget to grieve for my going,
I would not have you sad for a day.
But in summer just gather some flowers
And remember the place where I lay.
And come in the shade of evening
When the sun paints the sky in the west.
Stand for a few moments beside me
And remember only my best.
by Mrs. Lyman Hancock
~~~~

Again I am so sorry for your loss.
Danna; March 9, 2010 at 5:59 PM
Anonymous said...: Oh wow. I'm so very sorry to hear this news. You and your family has just been down a hard road lately. I'll keep ya'll in my prayers.; March 9, 2010 at 6:00 PM
Bobbi said...: Cheri,
I am so sorry for your loss. You have definitely had to deal with a lot of hurt lately due to loss. My thoughts and prayers go out to your family at this time. I look forward to reading about your spiritual connections with her in the future. Wishing you only the best.; March 10, 2010 at 7:02 AM
Anonymous said...: Sorry Cheri. I know you probably wont even check you e-mails so just rest for now. Will write more later. hugs.; March 10, 2010 at 12:52 PM
Unknown said...: I am so sorry. I hope you are finding peace in your time of need.; March 10, 2010 at 6:41 PM
Red Charlotte said...: My deepest condolences!; March 10, 2010 at 7:49 PM

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Best Wishes,

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I received two wonderful readings from you for my 4th and 5th children you were SPOT on your readings were amazing
I am now waiting to start ttc number 6 and have already received a reading from you which seems so accurate cant wait to find out if you will be right :)
feel free to post this on your website cheri
clara x

Hi Cheri!

This is really neat, you totally nailed our kids!! And our financial situation is exactly as you described! Even my husband, the skeptic, was impressed. It'll be fun to see if the TTC prediction "comes true". I'll let you know!

Thanks so much,

Kim :)

Cheri,

I included our previous conversation so you could see what the prediction was, I am sure it is hard to keep them all straight.

Well, you were right about the conceive in August, however, sadly I ended up miscarrying. As far as personality goes, I know people can read what they want into their prediction, however the little girl you described is a perfect blend of my husband and myself. My husband is an artist at heart and when he needs a break or something is on his mind you can find him doodling on any medium he can find, we are both quit and big on talking things out.

I appreciate everything
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HI, Cheri,
I just wanted to tell you thank you so much for your response below. I was doing an injectible cycle with timed intercourse when I asked my question - your response gave me the peace of mind I needed to go through with the cycle. Well, as you predicted I found out I was pregnant with a faint positive before a beta test confirmed my pregnancy on September 10!!! I have had 2 additional beta tests since and my levels rose as they should - doubling each time. Yea! I have my first and second u/s on Tuesday and on Oct 2. Of course right now my biggest challenge is to get through these 2 u/s. As you might guess, I am stressed about another m/c since I already experienced one with my first pregnancy. But I tell myself that I am receiving better care and have been under my doctor's supervision since day 1, plus I am taking progesterone supplements 2x per day which I believe may have caused my first m/c. I am trying really hard to think positive thoughts only!! I even ventured out and bought a few baby things this weekend.

Thank you from the bottom of my heart - I am so grateful that I found you! If you don't mind, I will keep you posted along the way. Also, if you need a testimonial from me just let me know (although I doubt you do since you do phenomenal work)!!

Take care and many thanks,
Becky

Hi Cheri

I thought I would let you know, that we we did try again for our much wanted second child and I'm currently 18wks pregnant!!!

And once again you are correct for me and this baby is due 16th May 2010, I'll let you know in May if the sex is correct.

I know alot of people are sceptical about what you do but for me you have been correct both times and your kind words got me through dark times when I thought everything was lost and we would never get this far.

Merry Christmas!

Jude

Hi Cheri!!!!
Thank you so much for my reading!

About Samantha--she already does love animals! She is infatuated with every animal we see, whether it's a dog or cat (we have one cat already who is probably her best friend), or a bunny, turtle, bear, or anything. She was infatuated w/ the giraffe on her mobile before she even started making noises; that was the one thing that soothed her. All of her baby stuff is jungle animals! I'm amazed you sensed that about her! And she also already loves books! She would typically rather look at a book than do most things. It's incredible.

The reading about my second daughter made me tear up. My husband wants a boy so badly, I can imagine if we don't get one she'll be a tomboy. My husband LOVES sports, so i can fully imagine that whole scenerio taking place. And about it being in July, i've told a few people that if i don't get pregnant this cycle, that i'll be waiting until June or July to try again so that i can get a Spring baby.

My mother was diagnosed w/ Melanoma (skin cancer) March 01, 2004 and passed away June 24, 2007--they gave her 18 months, but she lived 3 years 3 months and 23 days. You nailed it entirely when you said we look a lot alike. Her best friends tell me that i'm a spitting image of her, although she said she could never see the resemblance. And yes, she dyed her hair. When she was a child she was a natural blond, but after having me her hair turned brunette. When i was in my teens she started dying it back to blond. It was waist length when she cut it because of the chemo.

I know it's outside the given reading, but i'm wondering if my mother is around us all? i very seldom have dreams about her, and miss her guidance and support immensely. I would really like to work with you on developing some of my gifts, because a lot of what your reading said, i've already felt in my heart--especially the thing about animals and Samantha, i've known that since before she was born.

Thank you so much Cheri for your time and for sharing your gift. I believe you are very talented!
S.

Hi Cheri,

I'm so excited to let you know you were RIGHT about the month I conceived (September), when I started to feeling pregnant 8-12th and when I tested "pregnant" on the 11th!!!!!

Most importantly you were right about having a GIRL!!!!! Thank you so much for this wonderful email and perfect prediction!

Sincerely,

Allison

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Hi Cheri, it's Melinda here you have done a couple of readings for me and you are truly amazing. Your accuracy astounds me. Firstly you predicted my 3rd son to be a boy and in my next reading you predicted that If I were to have another child and it would be a girl and she would be due in Jan 2011. You were right, I am due in DEC 2010, but you were cloe enough. In one of my readings you also predicted my husband would be going into a partnership of some kind and although I thought you were completely wrong there, as my husband always said he would never go into a partnership. Turns out he has. So you truly are amazing and I tell all my friends about you.

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