it was supposed to be funny....

April fools is always a fun day I think. My sense of humor I think is good and can usually take a joke. Have been known to call my mother, my sister or even my aunt and tell them that I was pregnant.. Have called my aunt to say that I heard her daughter was pregnant and to say congrats on being a grandmother again....all in the name of fun.. and my family "gets it" and all thought it was funny. I figured I would try and post something on the blog that would be "funny" but honestly its 11:30pm here, I am tired and about to head to bed, and I just couldn't think of anything that would be a trick, that would not be taken the wrong way. Perhaps my brain is already asleep and my fingers are just typing on their own!

So... lets all have a good laugh, post in the comments section about an April fools joke that happened to you or that you did to someone else(at any point in your life) that was either really funny or kinda crappy! (that you can laugh about now).

The winner gets a FAMILY BYPASS reading from ME! I will announce the winner SUNDAY.

(PS, my intentions are to call my sister tomorrow morning all excited and tell her I won the lottery.. the drawing would have happened last night!) If only that really happened! lol

I dream of Jeanie with the light brown hair....

okay, so it wasn't someone named Jeanie, but her name was Stacey. Shes a friend of mine who I have known since we were TWO!. I woke up this morning at 6:30am (thanks to my little one) and remembered my dream so vividly that its hard to determine if its a memory of an event that happened, or a dream. I know its a dream once i tell you about it, but thats how vivid the pictures are!

For some reason my friend and I were in a small airplane and she was flying it. She obviously is NOT a pilot nor has she taken any lessons in her life so you think I would have known not to get in the plane with her! Anyways, in my dream it seemed to be okay that she was driving and it was obvious she did not have much experience. She was trying to find the airport to take me there. She was flying really close to the trees and it was making me nervous. She would try and hover the plane above to get a closer look. I kept telling her the plane was not like a helicopter and that she could not hover the plane like that!

So needless to say that how the dream ended.. Hilarious dream! Of course as I mention lots of times I use www.dreammoods.com to interpret dreams that are really vivid.. Out of curiosity, figured I would do that and found information that matched with what I had already sensed, and mentioned in posts awhile back. Some of you might remember.

To see an airplane in your dream, indicates that you will overcome your obstacles and rise to a new level of prominence and status. You may experience a higher consciousness, new-found freedom and greater awareness. Perhaps you need to gain a better perspective or wider view on something.

Evergreen
To see evergreen trees in your dream, signifies wealth, happiness, immortality, high aspirations, and knowledge. The dream represents the cycle of life and may be trying to offer you hope in the midst of despair. Alternatively, the dream may be a metaphor to be "ever green" as in to be more environmentally conscious.

To see lush green trees in your dream, symbolize new hopes, growth, desires, knowledge, and life. It also implies strength, protection and stability. You are concentrating on your own self-development and individuation.

You asked.. I answered... (and the winner announced!)

I figured that there was alot of comments in the post that had good questions that I am sure that alot of people are wondering about... so rather than my answer being buried or not noticed, figured I would post the question here and then answer right below. I have also at the bottom announced the winner!

When you try to connect with someone, are you always trying for that one person? Or do you sometimes let them just come to you?

Sometimes I feel like someone is trying to talk to me, but I just I'm not as open to it as I could be.

A. For me, I ALWAYS try and connect with the person I am looking for. I always ask my clients to specify who they are looking for. If they just ask who is around then, MANY people will come through at the same time and I find the personalities and images blend together and its so much harder to separate it so that the client understands who exactly has shown up. This is not to say that I haven't had readings hijacked by a loved one or even have them follow me to the park with my daughter and chatting away and giving me information for their loved one... to the point that I actually had to cut our park visit short so I could email her his details as he just would not stop!! (he was just excited to connect and was not trying to torment me)

Its hard to open up to this part of your gifts. I think most people are a bit scared at first when trying it. I would say start off slowly and just try and connect with the loved ones you know and specifically ask for them to come and visit rather than just reaching out to "anyone" who might have shown up. Eventually you can expand your awareness to connect with other people.


I wonder if she is trying to say she wants you and your sister to help each other through this time? and then she will feel comfortable enough to move on?

I do think you have something there. My sister and I used to fight like cats and dogs when we were younger. As we have both gotten older, we have reconnected in a new way. Perhaps shes saying that she is happy to see the way we have been there for each other and that it gives her peace. Makes her happy....


Does this connection work the same way for those yet not born? Is the soul of the unborn a soul that is being reincarnated? I am interested to find out more about how these two things tie together. I've been reading a book buy the Dali Lama and he speaks of the process of reincarnation.

This is kinda a tricky question as psychics access their gifts in different ways. So I can only answer based on my own experience. When I connect with someone who has passed over, its a different connection. Its almost like its a past memory, I see pictures and events in their life, I can explain personality traits and show you what they were like or how they like to be remembered. I can sense how they died. Its almost like they are allowing me to "look backwards". When connecting with a child who is to start their journey here (possibly for the 20th or so time) they show it as a clean slate, a new begining and show me looking forward.. I hope that makes sense? There is definitely a different feeling and way of viewing the charts when it comes to someone who is to come versus someone who has just left.


So for the winner.. congrats to poster number 8!!! LINDSAYCAMP78. Please contact brooke777 to claim your free reading!

Thanks for everyone for your comments!

A "gem" in the middle of "no where?"

Its been now almost three weeks since my mom passed. I would like to say that I am accepting now of her being gone. I think I know its more that although her body is "dead" in this world, shes still very much "alive" spiritually.

Today while in my youngest daughters room, I was laying on the floor and meditating. Calling to my mom in the hopes of communicating a little bit. I wasn't getting an image of her being close by so I sent a mental question asking her where she was. It was then I started to see images which I was able to translate. I thought it was really neat, and felt I would share with everyone. Perhaps it will provide comfort to those of you who have recently lost your own loved ones, or comfort knowing when its your time to pass, that things are not "over".

She showed me an image of two pieces of stripes of paper, this translated showed me "crossroads". She let me know that this is where you go when you pass over and start your journey home. I know for some people, it can take a matter of minutes to get to this "cross roads" and others who are unsure if their loved ones they left behind are okay with them being gone, might hang around for a few weeks before starting thier journey to this place. She then showed me a "gem in the middle". To provide further information that this place is a nice place to go and not give me the impression that its a cross roads or a middle of no where.

She went on to explain (with feelings and pictures) that its a place you goto review your life. The times you enjoyed, the times you didn't, but more importantly was a place that allows you to reflect on your life lessons. Did you learn everything you set out to learn?

This is also the place where you can decide if you want to reincarnate straight away to perhaps finsh life lessons you wanted to learn, or you can decide to go "home" for awhile before deciding to reincarnate or just stay put. Its up to you when and if.

The image she showed me was of her walking along the beach, hold myself and my sisters hands as she walked along. The picture was in black and white. I do not recognize this image, but it was what was flashed across to show me what she was currently viewing. She felt at peace, which I guess does provide me comfort.

I know us here still alive are still missing her like crazy.

Well its been awhile, lets give a reading away.. This is for Brooke777. All you have to do is just comment in my post:) Winner announced SUNDAY!

Today was the day

we put my mom to "rest" so to speak. We had a wonderful celebration of life for her today.I must admit I was really beside myself on my way there. Trying to breathe deep and just relax. I knew it was going to be hard today and emotional and it was. I do have to say that it was perfect.. amazing. There was so many people there to support our family and show their love for my mother. I was truly touched.

While talking with a few friends towards the end, I felt someone tap the top of my head. I turned to say hello... no one was there. I turned again to my two friends who I had just chatted with and asked them if they saw anyone tap me. They both looked at me a little strange and said no. So I turned again, no one was close enough to have tapped me even as a joke, and both of my friends insist no one was there. So perhaps my mother?

Awhile ago my sister commented that she wished this happened to someone else. I explained that although I would love to have my mother back, I would NOT wish this on anyone, nor could I wish it was someone else. I realize that everyone has a "time" to go, and it was my mom's. I am slowly starting to accept that shes gone from this world, and knowing that shes in transition to head back home. I feel at peace, knowing that I have the memories I do. I am in the middle of collecting pictures I have of her, in the hopes of making a scrapbook of my memories of her. Being able to show my daughters who their grandmother was. My youngest is almost 2 and my eldest almost 7. Its likely they wont remember much about her as the time goes on if anything, so it will be nice to have and show them what a wonderful person she was. She warms my heart even still.

So if I can offer one piece of advice, for those of you who have your parent(s) still here, ensure you take pictures often, ensure you spend time with them, ensure you say what is in your mind and heart.. You never really know when its time to "go" and all the things you wish you could have shared when they were still here.

This week, will start back with the giveaways on the blog. I am almost caught up with readings from the past two weeks where I found myself behind.

Thanks everyone for all of the support and kindness you have all shown me in the past two weeks. Its something that I will always remember.

Life unexpected....

I think its always important to surround yourself with positive and happy people. I think its unavoidable to cut out everyone who is negative, but hopefully you can find enough balance. Whether its with your partner, your children, your family or friends, its always good to have someone that you can vent at and not be judged, or someone who you find to be uplifting and fun. Even if its someone who you know in real life, or online.

I have a best friend that i Have known since we were born. We have separated our ways a few times over the years. Our parents were friends and drifted apart, we grew up, had other friends. It was when we were both pregnant with our daughters (who are both now 6) that we reconnected as friends. We spend alot of time chatting or hanging out. I watch her daughter for her for a short time as both our girls are in the same school and class. I think its important to have people that you can socialize with as well as it tends to really make you a more level headed and balanced person. My husband is my best friend. Someone who I cherish, but I need other outlets. I have "you guys" to help which is my dream and passion right now, and then I have my friends that I goto movies with..etc.

I have found that when your looking for a relationship or a friendship all you have to do is ask it to the world and something will come your way. I have had numerous clients who kinda feel "alone" at times or find it hard to make new friends where they live and really rely on their online friends for support.

I recently had wanted to meet new people in real life. I am a bit hesitant at first as I do have a alot on my plate, but felt I needed to find "more". My husband started to talk to this guy from his hockey and they invited us out as a couple to go for dinner with them. I was NERVOUS with meeting her. Not sure why, but I guess I was. She was alot of fun, I felt like I had known her my whole life. We talked and talked and talked. I told my husband I liked her and thought we would be friends and turns out she felt the same. A new friendship was started!. Well I had a night out with my husband last week or so and we headed to this couples house for dinner. (they ordered some really yummy pizza) and we started to talk. Turns out that this girl has the EXACT same blood type as me!. Now I know, that sounds silly to be excited about something like that, BUT... for those of you who dont know, I am AB NEG. This is a RARE blood type and according to the people I have talked to and studies online, only 5% of the entire worlds population will have this blood type. I guess I just think its cool!

So sometimes its nice to get to know new people and not be hesitant with starting new friendships. Allow the universe to work for you.. allow your guides to bring in the people you need in your life to be able to reconnect and be yourself..

I'm back.... I think

I have been having fairly good days lately.. and then I get a bad one. Last night I had a dream.. my sister called me on the phone to tell me that my mother died. Now in my dream I was already aware that she was dead, so I had no clue as to how it could happen the second time.. Lets just say that its not easy hearing it the second time either!

So today was a rough day for me. I did have somethings that made it a bit brighter. I headed to my Mom's husbands house today to help him look for pictures. My mom's celebration of her life is being done this Sunday and we wanted to find pictures of her to put up for everyone to see. I mentioned to him, that if my mother kept her wedding rings from when she was married to my dad, that I would love to have them. My mom always talked about getting them melted and making necklaces for myself and my sister. We decided to search the jewelry box.

First and foremost, my mom was NOT Mrs Clean.. heck she was not even Mrs. Tidy. She seemed to leave stuff lying around everywhere. I would consider her Mrs. Cluttered. I think that partly due to her depression from previous and I am sure bouts of it at times, it was hard for her to organize things, put things away or even throw things away that didn't need to be kept. She kept everything! Anyways, he opened up the bottom drawer of the jewelry box and inside were two receipts.. the funny thing was that it was for two random things that just did not really "matter". Not like you needed to keep them. So we kinda laughed at that. The second drawer from the bottom contained a small, flat craft wooden PIGS HEAD.. yes.. that was what was in there. My mom's husband and I laughed pretty hard about that. It was almost like it was planted there to get a laugh out of us at that time. I sure needed it. I never found the rings we were looking for, but we realized that just from looking for pictures and the rings, that there are not only going to be memories attached to what we find when we start to sort out the house, but fun stuff too that I am sure will have us rolling in laughter.

As I was driving away from their house, I felt my mother watching from the patio. Sitting in the same grey chair she would always when she had her smoke and she waved. I wish I could have seen with my own two eyes, but will have to take comfort in seeing with my minds eye for now.

Tonight, after laying in my youngest bed with her trying to get her to finally fall asleep (was 10pm by the time it happened) someone sat on the corner of the bed.. only no one was there physically. I got a mental image of my mom again, just sitting.. offering support. Not saying anything (either out loud or mentally either).

I think today was a hard day as well as I had to pick up my mothers ashes. They will eventually be spread somewhere special. We are probably going to wait till closer to her birthday in June to decide where and as a family (me, my sister and my mothers husband) will go and do it together.

So, I am back online, I am back to answering emails and doing predictions. I am behind a few days with them, so please continue to be patient with me. I will do my best to keep going strong, while still trying to make sure that I allow myself the opportunity to grieve if I am having a bad day.

Thank you all for your kindness and support during this difficult time. I appreciate it!

Life unexpected.....

as you all know, my mother passed away on March 8th. My days and nights have been fairly consumed with trying to keep my sanity for the sake of not only my husband and two girls, but for my sister, my mothers husband and family and friends who are all affected by her death.

My mom's husband told me yesterday and today that he was having a hard time believing in psychics. I told him I was not offended by him saying that as I do know that sometimes people disbelieve as its easier than to believe. He then commented that he was sleeping at his brothers house, and then as he was lieing there, has the disctinct impression that he was not alone. He said he immediately felt it to be my mom and called out and said that he loved her. He then said last night, he was just starting to fall asleep and someone pushed him. Out of habit he went to turn and tell my mom to stop it (as this was something she would do to him often enough) only to realize that he was completely alone. So I think that he is starting to realize that when you die, its not over... perhaps I can help him open his own abilities more in a way that might be more comforting to him and being able to sense my mom more closely.

I posted on my facebook last night "
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Cheri  if I could pay 1,000,000 for a chance to have one last phone conversation with my mom... I would do it. I know she remains in spirit and chooses to remain close at this time.. but to hear her voice one last time.. is something I would cherish for a lifetime.
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Last night, I had a dream of my mother which I knew was more than just a dream. She was in the dream and it was two days before she passed. I told her I knew she was going to die in two days and needed to make up a will and other documents. She kinda laughed slightly and just shook her head, not really believing me, but enough that she did what I asked. I watched as she wrote something on a piece of paper, and then rolled it up into a tube. She then placed it in this wagon of some sort. I remember picking it up and thinking I was going to open it and read it, but changed my mind. Part of me keeps thinking that this was her way of letting me know shes okay and understands what happened. Is "accepting" of it.

Her death is hard to accept, but I do take comfort in that I feel connected to her. I "hear" her and feel her. I know she is spending most of her time with her husband to try and console him, but shes making an effort to show everyone that shes okay and that we dont need to cry....

So I am hoping to get back into the swing of things with my readings, so please just bare with me for a few more days while I get caught up.

Thank you everyone for the love and support you have shown. I can not express in words just how much that has meant to me.

Reiki can be an uplifting experinece

I have told many of my clients over the years about trying Reiki for the first time. For those of you who are interested in opening your own psychic gifts, this is a step that would allow you to open up your gifts on a new level. Even having them teach you is something that would provide some enlightenment.

The first experinece with Reiki I have, is being attuned and taught by a reiki master locally. I had no idea what to expect. I had never been with anyone who knew reiki or had a session. I was excited to try it. During her attunement you have to keep your eyes closed, I was sitting in the chair and eyes closed. During her session, there was images flashing through my mind, and near the end, I was shown a pink flower, blossoming. It was almost looking like a pink water lilly. I guess that is the best way to describe it.

She told me I could open my eyes. It was hard, I could not see and was having trouble focusing. I started to laugh and asked her if this was "normal". She said that she had not had anyone take to the reiki attunement as I had, and said I was like a sponge. I explained my vision of the pink flower and she was amazed, saying that the flower I described is a showing of a more spiritual awakening. It was exciting. She taught me what I needed to know for the reiki level one. I did a session on her daughter and felt my hands heat immediately. It was a surreal experinece that to this day, I can tell you EVERY thing that happened. Including me going back to my car to drive home and worried that I would not be able to drive as I felt light headed.

I have been telling people its worth the experience to either have a reiki session done on you (its so much more intense being hands on with a reiki practioner, but is still pretty good if you know someone who can do the reiki distance:)

One of my clients recently went through this experinece and she decided to share her experinece with everyone in case your curious.



Cheri,

I wanted to share this with you in the wake of your negative client. It's easy to blame someone for things not turning out when they are*supposed* to. I think sometimes the timing is off; people still have things to learn or go through before *things* are *supposed* to happen doesn't mean you’re wrong, just not within this time frame. But you already know this. I wanted to share this with you last week, but I held off since you had a lot going on. But now is a perfect time. You suggested that I get a Reiki session done back in June of 2009. Well I finally got around to it, and let me tell you it was one of the best experiences that I have ever known. During the session I wasn't quite sure if it was going to work, but the complete calm and love and stillness that I feel now, I completely know that it has worked. My Reiki master used a pendulum to locate the areas that were blocked. The only area that did not move was my heart, and I cried. I had a 45-minute session and after she held the pendulum over my heart and it started to move. She said I had so much energy that it was actually refreshing working on me. What I've noticed in the week that I've had my session, I've quit smoking cold turkey with no withdraw symptoms, I have no stress, I do not have that nasty feeling in the pit of my stomach when I become angered, (I don't even think anything has made me angry) I've had clearer dreams and I have this complete sense of calm. I'm planning on going back when I don't feel as complete, and I've also given thought of learning Reiki myself. So I guess my point of this e-mail is to thank you. I thank you because I would have never experienced this wonderfulness if I wouldn't have known and trusted you. So for all the *negative* that you hear, remember the positives are out there in greater numbers. You've helped me in so many ways, words cannot express.

Thanks
C.B.

My mom just died.....

I know a horrible way to start off the topic, but it is what it is. Tonight I got a call from her husband saying that she was having a heart attack and that the ambulance paramedics were working on her and trying to revive her. After 20 minutes still no luck. I made it to surrey where she lived and went to the hospital but it was too late... she was already gone.

There is more to the storey, but its 2am and just got home and really dont have my head on straight.. for those of you who are waiting for readings, or for your payments to be scheduled or even the free and winning readings.. please accept my apologies for the delay.. I am not sure if its going to be a day or two before I can feel back into the swing of things as I know my mom would not want me to put my life on hold.

More to follow.
Best wishes

Loved ones contest...

Sorry about not responding on sunday with the winner. For some reason my internet was screwed up last night and was having a hard time logging in with anything!

So to make this eaiser and make everyone happy... EVERYONE who wrote a comment (12 people in all) are going to win a connection with the loved one they mentioned! Please email cheri22@gmail.com and write "loved one winner" in the subject line. I will then email you with with a date as to when its done:) CONGRATS!

The voice of reason

It was a long day even though we only stayed for an hour at the celebration of life for my grandfather. (May he rest in peace). It started off as any other day (besides where we were headed) and I found myself annoyed. Hoping that my Cousin who is driving me nuts lately would not be there, and then moving on to thinking it would be nice if my Mother in law was not coming either. (now dont get me wrong, shes a wonderful woman, but she still drives me nuts!) Immediately my thought was answered by my guides and they said "its not about you". Which could not be more true. This day was NOT about me, but in celebration of my grandfathers life. It didn't matter if my cousin was there, or if my mother in law came with us. These were the people that were heading there to pay respect to my grandfather and his memory. So my guides were so true in their answer.

The other instance, was me "whining" about how my grandfather has not come to visit me, either in a dream or in person. I being more "awakened" than some in my family figured I would get a sense of him "first". I can't say I wasn't disappointed that he has yet to make his appearance. It was at the celebration of life, that i realized why. My Uncle got up and make a small speech about my grandfather. It was nice. I looked over at my mother and her siblings (there are 5 kids in all) and each one was teary. My mom them took the "stage" and went up. She played a song that my grandfather song to her when he went away on business and she played it for everyone there today. This is when I started to bawl. It was also then that I noticed my grandfathers energy sitting up on stage, facing towards everyone, holding a glass of what appeared to be some sort of "liquor" (I dont think you can drink when your gone, but perhaps because he was a drinker here in life it was the image he projected?) The vision in my minds eye clearly showed it in his left hand, he was still overweight and had his right hand resting on his right leg/knee area. His shirt being of lighter color and wearing brown slacks... he was smiling.

After the song was over and my mom sit down I walked over to hear and told her it was her that made me cry. That I was okay up till that point. My family has a way of joking around to try and brighten up a sad situation. My mom then told me that she has been dreaming of that song playing over and over in her head like a broken record for the last week.. That she KNEW she had to play it today as her way of saying goodbye. This is again when my guides made it known "its not about you". Which made me realize that although I am sure that my grandfather would have love to make an appearance known to me, there were people in his life that needed him more, and is where he spent his time.

I think that today has been a bit of a eye opener in a way. I know life is "short" as we know it. I hear countless people asking what happened to the time and hearing others saying its just flying past. I think that too often we internalize about how we feel about someone, or something or some situation and how it effects us. What we get out of it, how it effects us, our mood..etc.. and so little do we often see the overall picture. How this one person touched many liefs, how it affects us all. I think that this can be applied to so many situations. Being more open minded about how it all works is sometimes the first step in being more "awakened" spiritually. Allowing you to get a sense on how it feels for everyone and not just yourself. This also I think helps us to connect to all of humanity.

I know being an empath has allowed me to feel what others are feeling and know their situation. My friend called me yesterday. They have had a HORRIBLE few years. Starting with the passing of her husbands mother to brain cancer, to him almost being killed in a work place accident, and them still having trouble finding him solid work.... I went over there yesterday, I bought them a gift certificate to a local grocery store, and a pack of razors (she told me she was using the same razor for the past YEAR) and dropped it off. She felt bad about taking it, but it made me feel good to be able to do it.

So I guess, this is just to say.. do a little good for someone else today (or this week) no matter how big or how small it is, everything matters... everything will add up into something good. This post will also be a give away for a reading from me today. There is a catch... If you win, you have to pass the reading to someone you know... Winner announced TUESDAY. (dont forget, another blog contest is below!~)

Today is the day

Well as most of you know, my grandfather died last week. I know, great way to start a topic on my blog. Well, today is going to be the day that we all go and celebrate his life. I think that its also the first time I really have not felt a connection with him since he has passed over. Usually people stay a few days to a week (or longer if they feel that their loved one needs them and can't do it without them) and then they go into the light so to speak and it usually takes me 6 months before I can reach them. Not sure if it takes that long to transition or perhaps build up enough strength that I can reach them. So usually within the first few days to a week its the easiest to connect with somenoe who has passed, or after the 6 month mark. I really do not feel my grandfather around. I have not had him come visit in a dream either. I know its harder to visit with your own loved ones than it is to help someone else....but I get for some reason, that he was tired of being here (he suffered from dementia, vision loss and other such things) and was ready to head home. Hopefully he can be there for the service as I really think that there is going to be alot of people that are going to celebrate his life tomorrow. Hopefully its about memories and happiness, than sadness and grieve and regret. I hope people remember the time that they had with him, the memories they created rather than grieving the ones that they did not. The shoulda coulda wouldas should remain at home and the "I did, or we did" should show up. I am looking forward to hearing the loving stories of his life.

So to make this a post to create happiness... if you have had someone pass over and want to connect, post a comment in the post... I will draw a winner Sunday.

You guys are AMAZING!!!

I truely was not expecting all of the comments so thank you. I did of course read them all and I do appreciate everything that was said. I do my best to try and get any information that I would find to be helpful. Whether its searching the internet for fertility information, using Reiki to help clear the chakras and look for anything medically delaying your conception...or just working with my guides to provide you with insight as to the child that is to come and what they are like and which month they should be connected with.

Most of my readings will connect to the current year or the year after when it comes to fertility readings. As I mentioned rare occasions its gone past that. I can not tell you why it does, or even narrow down the time frame. I think that by doing that, you will end up stressing even more as the time frame comes up and we all know that stress can delay a conception!!! Negative thoughts like "I can't get pregnant" or "this is never going to work"...etc. Or anything along those lines should be BANISHED from your thinking. Anytime it happens to creep up, automatically follow it with something positive. " I will conceive", or "My baby is about to be created within me"... even positive visualizing techniques of seeing the sperm go into the egg and start to split into cells is also something positive that your body reacts to! For those of you who are knew to the blog, the positive thinking excersies that go more indepth with how to visualize is posted in the links on this blog!

Now, here is something that I noticed was common in the comments below. Some women mentioned that they had lost their original prediction or their updated ones. As I use gmail as my email preference, this might be coming in handy for you all! Rather than delete the emails, gmail ARCHIVES it. This means that if someone has misplaced or deleted their reading if you email me with "READING LOST" in the subject line I should be able to locate it for you and send it again:) Isn't gmail WONDERFUL!

As for the negative email I got. I do not think that it was my clients intention to hurt me. I do think she was letting off steam. I am the type that talks about things, lets the energy go and release it. I do not keep my feelings bottled up and find outlets to just let it go. I also know how to use the apron strings of light to detach myself from a negative situation, conversation, or even a person. (this technique WORKS and is even located on this blog for those of you who need it). So thank you all for the support and feedback you have all provided below.

Now the winner.. I called my mother, told her to pick a number between 1 & 34, and she said "23".. that person is "JAYSDREAM", so please email me at cheri22@gmail.com with "family bypass winner".

I am hoping that you all have a wonderful and happy weekend filled with either bfps, or fun trying for those!

Lets get a few things straight....

I figured today was the perfect time to get a few things out. For one, I am stalling with working out. I still have a bit of a cold (not nearly as bad as this weekend) but I need to get back into the swing of things and when my daughter is having a nap is usually the best time). Since I have a cold, I guess I am not feeling very motivated with the excersise department.

Okay, I got an email from a client of mine that I have done readings for back in 2008. She has still yet to conceive. Shes VERY mad at me for some reason that she has not gotten her bfp.. please please everyone, realize that I am not the one that can get you pregnant! My insight provides you with a month your child will relate to, and provides you with a personality reading of the child that I am being shown. Most of my readings will line up to the current year the reading was given, or the year after. Rarely has it gone past that. Unfortunetly there are rare cases where it has, and its out of my control. I would LOVE to help you all get pregnant, i try and provide as much information as I can in regards to what medically might be wrong, or even providing hope to lift off the stress your experienceing associtated with trying to conceive. So emailing me with a very negative email hurts. I would love nothing more for everyone of my clients to email me with bfp news and confirming gender when they find out, or even the birth of there little one! But I can't get you pregnant.. thats something that you need to continue trying with, with as much hope and positiveness as you can muster. I am ALWAYS here for support.

If for any reason, your reading has gone past the time frame that I have given you, I am more than happy to look again to see if anything has changed for you. All you have to do is ask.

My next thing.. RUBY.. I really dont want to talk about her, but have been getting quite a few emails from clients that have tried her and NOT received their readings. (And this is not just one client, but many). This includes a recent client of mine who paid over 6 months ago to Ruby, sent 7 emails and NEVER received it. I have told everyone who has contacted me and complained about her, to email her demanding a refund if she does not provide her reading as promised. A few of my clients have been told a specific date to not even get it by the promised time, and this is with them paying an ADDITIONAL fee to expedite their reading request!. File a complaint with paypal to get your money back, and then if she provides the service as promised, close the dispute. Ruby if your reading this, you REALLY need to get your act together. Get more organized or take on less work. Its not fair to everyone with the way your doing it right now and causing all these problems. I dont like to see people being taken advantage of and I believe that is what your doing.

Lets end this post on a positive note.. leave a comment in the post, and be entered to win a 25.00 family bypass reading done by me. Contest closes FRIDAY night! I will announce the winner then!