Congrats to...........

Alicia! I really enjoyed all the quotes that everyone submitted, and I plan on posting them at some point or another on Wednesdays for "inspiration". I always find things like that to always be meaningful, and eye opening. Tend to really make you think and sometimes give you a better perspective on life or a situation that your going through.

So Alicia, you need to contact Brooke777 her site is located on the lower right side of this blog, and it will show you her email address. Just make sure to put "Cheri22 blog contest winner" in the subject line so she can locate you.

I am taking the girls to the zoo today, and meeting up with a friend and her daughter. Its a scorcher out there and I am not a huge fan of the sun, so I guess we will see how long I last! If you see me walking by, I am the woman with the extremely white skin, still wearing her maternity clothes and yep, pants! lol

free will, and how it plays a role in your life

I know that we all have free will, and it certainly plays an important role in our lives, but I also wanted to point out how it can affect your readings. If your given a certain month, lets stay "may" and you do everything in your power to avoid may like the plaque, your thus altering your reading that has been given to you. Sure you can certainly get pregnant in another month of course, but had you just continued on doing you know what chances are higher it would have matched the month you were predicted. By avoiding the month of may as either conception, finding out your pregnant or even aligning as EDD, you are using your own "free will" and thus altering your path slightly. Will this cause problems in the future? No! Not at all! That's the great thing about it.

Before we come here, we draw up blue prints of our lives. The people we plan to meet, the lessons we choose to learn..... and one of the benefits of being human, among other things is our free will to choose how we live our lives while we are here. Although we always have a "guidebook" as to what to follow in our lives, we can always get there in a different way.

Lets see if I can explain this easily. Lets say your walking through the woods, and your on a path, its wide, brightly lit, feels peaceful, you can hear the birds singing, and many other people are on this path. As you go further along, you notice to the left (or heck the right) another path. Its a bit darker, a bit mysterious, and you think "heck why not" and off you go. Now taking this other path, does not mean you have veered off the course you have made for yourself, but actually just means you took a different path to get there, as all the paths can criss cross, and rejoin later, but all end in the exact same place. You will still learn the same lessons you planned for yourself, but perhaps in a different way.

Lets say you were to learn about love with a man named Chris, but things were just too difficult and you left, thus taking a slightly different path, and you met a man named John. So same lesson will play out, just a different way.

There are times in our lives where we feel lost, like we have taken the completely wrong path in our lives and just wondering around in circles feeling like we should be going somewhere yet getting no where... this is when you need to stop and think, and realize that all you have to do is ask for directions and help will arrive... Your guides will show you the right path, your loved ones will show you the right path, and its never too late to hop back on the brightly lit path that feels just right.

Free will, plays an important part in our lives. I know many people second guess what their decisions are, afraid that they might have messed up their plan, afraid that by leaving someone who is "toxic" that they wont find someone else. Afraid that the person they are with, although really bad for them, just might be the one... All I can say is trust in yourself, believe in yourself, and take the path that feels right.. Everything will have way of straightening itself out:)

If you have any questions about this post, feel free to leave a comment in the comments section and I will reply, or if you feel more comfortable, you can email me cheri22@gmail.com and put "blog comment" in the subject line. I will be back later tonight to post the winner from yesterdays giveaway. I love all the quotes!

A little late posting this but .....

here is how you can win the free reading from Brooke777!!!

Now for you to be able to win the chance for this free reading, in the comment section I want you to post your favorite inspirational quote. Something that really touches you and makes you think. It needs to be "positive" of course! That's it.. that's all you have to do. Post in the comments section attached to this post with your quote, and your email address. Everyone who enters will be put in the draw to win which I will announce tomorrow. I will draw a name out of a hat to see who won.

I am tired again today, Baby is doing okay but does this grunting/groaning or clearing of her throat off and on during the night, more so in the wee hours of the morning and just before she gets up. I often go and check on her thinking shes awake, but nope, shes sleeping! Does anyone have any suggestions on what this is? I was thinking it was gas, and it was her way of trying to stop it, or "fix" it? I even made my husband get up and burp her which she did burp, but even sometimes after already being burped and laying her down, she does this..any ideas?

lets announce the winner!

okay, the winning number was actually 15! I was pleasantly surprised to see alot of you had guessed fairly close!!! There is one person who had it exactly right (gsman) so you win. Now I know that I had said that I would be handing out two readings, and with everyone being so close, there was alot of people with the number 14 which was close, and others with 16, so its hard to narrow it down. To make it easy, I just picked the first person on the list who responded first to receive the second reading. So its Courtsnee that is also the winner. So please email you guys cheri22@gmail.com with "Blog contest winner" in the subject line and I will forward you to Ruby's email:)

Dont forget, I still have two more free readings to give away for Ruby's readings and tomorrow is the giveaway for brooke777!

Still not feeling 100% myself, the baby had a bad day yesterday and I was not sure exactly what was going on. Shes rarely someone who is fussy or cries, and sleeps regularly, and yesterday nope, not so much, and just cried all night :( I realized it was the green and red peppers that I ate for both lunch and dinner yesterday and now even I am paying for it with stomach cramps from the gas lol.. so no wonder she was like that. Today has been much better, shes feeling alot better and currently sleeping so I have snuck online to get some readings done and will be back on again tomorrow morning.

Hope you are all having a good week!

Time for a reading give away!

As promised, its time to give away another reading from Ruby. I believe that today since everyone has already figured out my secret psychic, I'll give away TWO of her readings today, which leaves three left! This gives you an indepth reading on one question. Can be about children, love, life, finances..its completely up to you!

I'm a bit tired today, baby decided to be up at 6:30am tossing and turning and grunting! (she is usually good for at least 8am !lol) So her and I slept on the couch for a bit longer so my husband could get more sleep. I should be napping as baby is, but too much to do.

So since I am feeling sluggish, this contest will be "easy". So, here is what you need to do. Pick a number between 1 to 20. Post your answer in the comments section. The two people who either get it right, or are close, win.. its that easy!

I will announce the winners tomorrow night on this blog. Get your answers in cause next week will be trickier to win! lol

Is it a sign?

I think that I have talked to a few people already about "signs" and what they can mean. Often you might see things that are "linked' in some way, perhaps always seeing "upside down rainbows" or a particular bird where normally there isn't that type there. Perhaps a song on the radio, a button on the street...these are all things that most people right off as coincidence....but what if its more than that? What if someone is trying to get your attention?

For me, there are certain things that really "trigger" a thought for me and I instantly know what it means or who its from. When I smell smelly socks, I know its not just laundry left behind from my husband or daughter, as there are NO SOCKS around, and know that this is my grandfathers way of coming through and showing that he is here.

I also know that when your looking for answers, sometimes the answer is right in front of you. You just have to open your eyes. If your looking for help, you can always turn to your spirit guides for the answer, or any of the loved ones who are looking out for you. You can often "assign" a "sign" for them to use to show you the way. Don't expect an immediate answer, you need to sometimes give them a few hours to a few days to arrange everything just so. Usually a "chance" encounter, or heading somewhere you normally would not and locate the "sign"...etc.

I remember on May 26th, when I was woken up by my 5 year old for a drink, and then heading to the washroom noticed I was bleeding. Now I bled off and on during my pregnancy with my 5 year old, but not with the baby. So seeing the blood freaked me out, and I was worried. No contractions at this point. I phoned labor and delivery, and they suggested I come in to get checked. When we were about 2 min from the hospital, the radio started playing "I'm coming out, I want the world to see"...etc. I wish I knew the name of this song, I can sing that part of it, but can't remember the rest of the words. Before that song came on, I wasn't sure if it was going to be labor, or if something was wrong... that song confirmed the baby was on the way. I pointed it out to my husband and my MIL (who insisted on coming) and they both thought it was funny.

Now I also happen to like numbers, as I am sure that everyone else does. I seem to play the lottery whenever the numbers seem to match.. for example, JUNE 6, 2006.. so that's 06-06-06 lol. Okay, obviously I have never won big (yet) its the only time I really have fun buying the tickets. I also think that its completely neat that my daughter (first) was born at 3:37am and my second was born at 7:33am... see the pattern? Its completely reversed from my first! lol. Okay, come on ladies, tell me that I am not the only one who loves things like this? lol

On an update, little one is 1 month old today. Time really does go by pretty fast. Shes always smiling, pretty content, and rarely cries. Shes "predictable" (knock on wood) as she is awake from 9-11pm and sleeps in 3-4 hour blocks, and then up around 8 or 9am for one hour before asleep for three more hours.

I am caught up on readings and working on the day that is scheduled, I have two people from June 21st that have yet to respond to my reading, so if you have paid for your reading, and where scheduled for June 21 or paid awhile ago and yet to get an email from me, chances are I am looking for you. I am looking for Amy and Meaghen.

Anyways, the weather is beautiful out here, and hoping at some point to take the girls out for a walk and enjoy the sunshine. Hopefully you all can too! Don't forget, tomorrow is the giveaway for Ruby's reading (aka the secret psychic) to find out more information about her, there is a post below with feedback from people who have had readings already. I have 5 more readings to give away and then will reveal her info for those of you who are interested in trying her out.

Are you feeling surrounded by negative energy or bad luck?

I know that I have one client that seems to have her fair share of bad luck and things going wrong lately and figured that there would be more people. Most times a positive outlook can sometimes chase the negative energy surrounding you away, but when everything seems to go wrong at every twist and turn in life, sometimes you just need more help and its not as easy to try and see the "silver lining" in those stinking rain clouds! lol.

So, you can sometimes alter this, but bringing in some "positive" energy into your house. To do this, all you need is a white candle. Not any other color, white... Start in any room of your house and light your candle, when standing in the doorway of the room, walk to your left, and go right (or as close) to the corner as you can. Say "let this light bring positive energy into our house, only goodness and love may enter it", then move clockwise around the room until you have done this in all corners of that room.. then do the same to each room in your house. Once you are done, blow the candle out. You should feel things being more "settled" not just around you, but also inside.. more at peace, more happy, more positive.. and you will notice that the other people in your household will also feel the same.

Sometimes when things are going wrong, people will focus on the negative energies that surround the situation and it tends to follow.. thus seeming like everything is going wrong, and its kinda hard to get out of a funk sometimes. I also know if your sensitive to the energies of other people, or people who have passed over, you can also tend to have them "stuck" with you, so this 'candle' refreshing is a good way to also clear your house of all of that too!

Let me know if you have any questions about this and I can try and explain it further:) Would love to hear any ones updates after using it on how they felt before and then after. Should not take more than 3 hours to feel the after effects (can take up to 6 on rare occasions) and you can do this as often as you feel necessary.

The winner and some important information!

The winner of yesterdays blog contest is Niki! The correct time of my birth according to my mother was 6:17pm! So thank you all for playing. Niki, email me at cheri22@gmail.com and put in the subject line "blog contest winner" and I will take care of the rest and let you know how you can pick up your prize.

Now, for some important information. I know that some women from various sites have already figured out who the secret psychic is. I was emailed by a client of mine with questions pertaining to the secret psychic. Asking me if it was Ruby, and explaining why she was concerned along with a few other people, as they had concerns and wanted to "warn" me.

I was approached by Ruby a few days ago and was asked by her to connect her to my site. I honestly do not just add "anyone" to my blog or to my site just because they request it. I was feeling a bit off with her email, being asked out of the blue, and asked her TONS of questions to try and get a feeling as to who she was, and what skill level she was. I asked for a login name, which she did not have, I asked for a way to try and verify who she was, as I dont want to put anyone on my blog that would take advantage of my clients or readers of this blog. I actually googled her email address, and located a few sites that had information about her. Well, turns out the three posts I had seen, on three different sites, were all the exact word for word posts, but done by three different posters (login names) Now I asked her point blank if she did this herself (seemed too much of a coincidence that three different people would post the same thing word for word! lol) She actually denied this was her. ( I do know it was)

I also asked for proof of her feedback and ratings, and she pointed out that she had been on kasamba, and I asked for a link to see who she was. I have to admit that I was pretty skeptical and not sure how I was feeling about putting her on the site at all. I then told her exactly that. I was having a hard time reading her, and putting everything together, and then I asked her to read me as a way of also seeing how accurate she is. This is where I decided to give her the benefit of the doubt. The reading she did was fairly accurate, and including things that I dont believe I had mentioned anywhere else. (with when I was young and relates to my mom and her depression) So, this is when I decided to give her the benefit of the doubt, and allow her to do 6 free readings on my blog if she was interested. This would allow people to try her out for free and see for themselves on how they felt if she was accurate or not. Yes, Ruby certainly got off on the wrong foot in regards to advertising her services on the sites, and then denying it was her when people started to ask. I think she made a mistake, and should have owned up to it, and had she had a chance to do this over again, would probably think twice!

I also took this one step further. Shes fully aware of what is being posted on my blog, as I asked for one more thing. I asked to be shown a picture of her, that was NOT the picture on her kasamba listing so that I could see them to be matched, thus, showing me that she IS the person on Kasamba that she said she was. (the pictures are both of the same person and she does have good feedback on her rating)

So with this being said, its up to you if you decide to seek out her services, or if you choose not too. I can not vouch for anyone other than the experiences I have had and what I have found out, so this is solely at your own "risk" so to speak. If anyone has had a reading by ruby in the past, if you would like to share your feedback good or bad (either through this comments link on this post or emailing anon to cheri22@gmail.com) I am willing to post them here for others to see. Might give people a better understanding of who she is, and what she can provide.

I am still playing "secret psychic" for the next 5 weeks to allow people to get a reading from her for free.. and then you can see for yourself. At this point, I will then post her email address and site link for those of you who wish to find out for yourselves, or ask her questions.

Okay! Lets play "secret psychic" lol

As mentioned in a previous post, I have another psychic woman who would like to be introduced to you lovely ladies (and possibly gents?) and has offered her services for free for 6 lucky winners! I will be playing this "game" and giving away her readings (10.00 US Value) every Tuesday for 6 weeks! Sometimes the challenges or questions will be hard, others will be simple. Depends on my mood for the day!

Today, we will do it simple as I am having a good morning! lol. So here we go!

Today is my birthday! I turned 32 today! Sometimes I go back and forth with realizing that life goes by too quickly, and then trying to remind myself that I need to relax and enjoy it. So that's what I plan to do today. I am heading over with my two daughters to my mom's house for a nice little lunch. Both my mom, myself and my sister all have birthdays within a few days of each other! So will be nice to celebrate it as one.

So for today's challenge, you need to post your answer in the comments section, please leave your login name as well so that we can ensure that the winner really does win:) I will draw the winning name tonight and post tomorrow who won. I will then ask that the winner to email me to get the information for the secret psychic. I will pass along the psychics email address to claim your free reading. I just ask that you keep this person a "secret" until all the free readings are already passed out, and after that, if you enjoyed your experience, feel free to pass her email out.

So to be able to win, first off, you have to wish me a happy birthday! lol.. and the second part, what time of June 17th was I born? Here are your choices

A)3:17am

B) 8:17am

C) 3:17pm

D) 6:17pm

E) 11:17pm

So that's it! To be able to be entered to win, you need only to wish me a happy birthday and to pick a time that I was born! only one of these times are correct! lol. Good luck!

Trust your gut instinct!

I might have mentioned this before, but after what happened to me on Thursday I want to make sure to point this out again. We all get a "gut instinct" either about someone in particular or a situation at hand. Most times, I would like to think that everyone heeds their feelings but I know like most people, we often second guess ourselves. Giving someone the benefit of the doubt, or changing our minds in regards to a specific situation because we did not listen to ourselves. I have to say that its usually our spirit guides and loved ones that help with this "gut instinct" and are really trying to tell you something. If you actually stop and listen, and heed the warning, you will find that this feeling gets stronger with each use, like a "gift" and is more accurate than not.

My storey starts on Saturday the 7th. My husband gets a phone call from a company that wants to come and check our gas appliances, telling my husband that the fire department suggests doing this once a year. They would come by on the weekday, clean out the furnace and do a 31 point inspection of all of our gas appliances. So my husband tells them to call back on Monday and talk to me. They do, and I feel "uneasy" about the situation, but go ahead with it as my husband thinks its a good idea, and they are only going to charge 89.00 to do the inspection and cleaning. I feel uneasy about the situation as they called on a Saturday and just seemed "odd".. okay fine.

Monday comes along and they book the appt for Thursday around 12pm. They called me Wednesday night at 6:50pm to confirm the appt. Again this is something else that just seems "odd" to me as you would "assume' That they would call during normal business hours to confirm. Again I had a bad feeling, but continued on, thinking it was the best interest of my family to have this done. I even felt I should call someone else, and be the one to call, rather than just using someone who called me...

Well the guy shows up, is very nice, friendly and gets to work. Comes out and asks me how old our hot water tank is. I told him I am not sure, as we just bought the house 2 years ago and can't recall what the paper work says. He then tells me that he KNOWS its older than 8 years old, and that if something happened to our house, our house insurance would be void because of how old it is. Then he tells me he detected gas! Suggests getting the whole thing replaced, and tells me the hot water tank is on special this month and I can get a 50 gallon for the price of a 40. Okay, I tell him to write out a quote and I will talk to my husband about it. Then he tells me something is wrong in the furnace as well and it needs to be replaced. Again I ask him to write it out, and I will mention it to my husband.

Well he cleaned the furnace, or so I thought, I paid him the 89.50 (plus tax) and when he left I immediately called another company asking for how much it would be to have them come and do an inspection. I explained what happened, and they basically felt that I was about to be scammed. The guy came in this morning (he just left right now!) and told me that there is NO GAS LEAK! He also said that the hot water tank we have is in good condition and actually made by one of the best hot water companies, where as the other guy told me the brand we had was very bad. He then took a look at the furnace, where the part that was "supposed" to be going and informed me that all of this brand makes that noise, and does not need to be replaced. He then asked if the guy cleaned the "cells" and when he opened it up, they were dustier than heck! So the guy only wiped down the furnace from previous, and not cleaned it as he was supposed to!

So needless to say, that although having the second guy come in to do an inspection cost me another 105.00, it certainly saved me the 1500-2000.00 that the first guy insisted I needed to spend!

So like I said, trust in yourself, and you will find that your often able to divert some otherwise expensive situations!

I've cast a spell on you!!!!

okay, no not really!!! I figured that this is a good topic to start the week off. I know that there are plenty of people on ebay right now that are selling fertility related "spells". Telling you to buy their spell and that they can give you the baby you have been trying for. Does it work you might be asking? Should you be spending your money on a spell? Well I guess the answer can be yes, but this really depends on YOU!

This goes for ANY spell, if you believe in it, it will work. Someone can cast a spell of any kind and tell you that your going to come into money, but if you do not believe in the power of the spell, then nothing will happen. If you believe in it, you focus on it, then the money will come in. I think that this goes without saying if you focus on something positively, it will come true. This is very similar to the practice of "the secret" ( a movie/book you should watch/read!) The laws of attraction... you can focus on seeing yourself being a magnet and watching money come flying in a sticking all over you, and you WILL Notice an increase in the money that comes in rather than going out. It really does work!

So for a spell to work, including weight loss or money, or fertility, you have to believe in it. In reality, your causing this to happen yourself and really do not need the spell in the first place. You just need to be focused and positive on what you want.

As for curses, and "evil spells" do they exist? I really do not think that anyone can put a curse or hex on someone, or cause they any ill well. To my knowledge, its only "good" spells that may be cast, cause anything negative can come back to the person threefold. (meaning alot worse than they wished upon someone else!)

If anyone ever tells you that you have been cursed, or someone cast a bad spell on you...then the ONLY power anything like this would have over you, is IF you believe it. If you realize that its not true, then the power of this suggestion will not hold anything on you. You can cause negative energy to build and manifest into something that causes you problems, not a "spell" or a "hex" or even a "curse"

Anyone have any thoughts or experiences on this subject that want to share? I would love to either have you post in the comments section or even email me, cheri22@gmail.com


Now on to something else! A person contacted me, who is a psychic reader as well and would love to do some free readings for the readers of this blog while she gets herself set up. So as I did with brooke777, we are going to play "secret psychic!" lol. Starting Tuesday i will be posting a blog contest and one lucky reader will win the reading (10.00 value) from this secret psychic. Shes agreed to do 6 readings (thats every tuesday for 6 weeks) and after the 6th reading has been given away, I will post her site and email address for those of you who wish to contact her.

So stay tuned!

And the winner is.....

ERICA R!!!

Everyone was pretty much right with their answers, and would love to have given everyone a reading from Brooke777, but she would kill me!

So with this being said, Erica, you need to contact Brooke777 her email/site is located on this blog on the right hand side. Let her know you one the reading from my blog and she can take care of the rest.

As for an update, little baby is growing like a weed, shes very content, rarely cries, and have to say I consider myself very lucky. She does not mind the typing noise at all as I guess she was so used to it while in the tummy, that perhaps she finds it soothing. Its 9am here, already online as baby is sleeping, I "should' head into the shower, but will schedule some readings first, answer some replies, then hopefully have enough time to pop in for a quick shower!

I am still looking for stories of inspiration or encounters, does not have to be ttc related, but can also be about other things in your life, that perhaps seemed a bit hard, and came out well in the end, and you learned something from it. Perhaps others in similar situations might benefit from hearing your experience and knowing someone made it through :0) As always, I do trade a prediction bypass (8.00 Value) for the stories posted on the blog, and I can post you as "anon" if it makes you more comfortable. Just email your storey to cheri22@gmail.com and put in the subject line "blog post" and I will be able to locate it.

I am back up and running!

My site is back up and running, I am currently all caught up and hoping to stay that way. I do ask as always that you show Patience when completing your readings and replies. I will be doing most of my readings during the day at "nap time" for baby, but of course she at times might have other ideas! lol. Still working at getting a schedule and some sort of balance going with everything. Shes a very good baby, rarely cries, sleeps pretty well and allows me blocks of 3-4 hours of sleep each night, and goes back to sleep to do it again, so I am getting about 6-8 hours broken up, but will take it!

My eldest is really good with the baby, right now is the one cuddling with her in front of the tv while I snuck in here real quick to post to everyone. Shes always asking to hold her which is good and I just try to remind her about babies head.

So before I go hop into the shower and put the baby in the swing, I wanted to give away a reading from Brooke777!!!! Now to be able to have a chance to win this one, its simple. You have to know my favorite flower, what color it is, and where it grows at my house! For most of you who have read the blog before, this will be easy to answer, those who are relatively new, search the blog:) Post your answer in the comments section of this post to be eligible to win! I will draw a name and announce the winner tomorrow night! Good luck!

Beam me up scotty!

Do you believe in aliens? I kinda go back and forth with this topic. There are alot of things that really support the fact that they do exist, from the sightings to the people explaining their situations. Yea sure, I am sure that some people have some pretty fabricated stories, but what about the evidence, and some of the photos that have been proven not to be a hoax and unexplainable.

If you think of the pyramids, how else could they lug those huge bricks up there and put them into place?

About 10 or so years ago while in the car with my mother, we were driving along and in the sky ahead of us was a large light, it did not move, was kinda odd shaped, not circle, but not a complete oval either. If you took a pencil eraser that was the size it showed up in the sky. It was probably a yellowish orange color with a bit darker on the outside edges. I pointed it out to my mom and asked her what it was. Neither her or I could say what it was, as it did not move at all, just stayed put. After a few minutes, I just kept driving and we both completely forgot all about it.

Sylivia Browne has a book out that gives some predictions, and in it, she said in 2010 we would all know that aliens exist. Not just from pictures, or testimonials, but actually see them with our own two eyes and know that they exist. So I guess I am waiting to find out if that prediction is accurate and see for myself.

If they are real, then I really hope that they are nothing like that movie called "V". Did anyone else see that movie? lol

I would love to hear your thoughts on if you think aliens are real or not... put your comment in the comment section or you can email me at cheri22@gmail.com

As for the update, site should be back up and running on June 12th as written on the site.

your getting sleepy.... you can't keep your eyes open....

your falling asleep for a few hours.....did it work? Is any of you sleeping yet? No? Well doesn't work on the baby either! lol

I usually did my readings at night when my eldest (5 years) was sleeping, so usually from 9-11pm, well I guess while in the uterus, because I was sitting and relaxed, this is the time that baby seems to be wide awake! I tried the bath/bed routine and nope, still wide awake, and for the last few nights, same thing, shes always awake during this time, so going to switch and start doing my readings during the day while she naps! lol. I have 4 readings left from paid and that will be all caught up and will hopefully get some of the free readings completed before bringing up my site again.

Still working out a schedule on what works best for the family and thankful that hubby will watch little one if I get behind so I can do the readings at night if need be.

Otherwise, on a side note, the "Ask Jeni" is on hold temporarily as she just gave birth to her own son the other day, so need to give her a few days to recoup before asking her to help answer some fertility related questions.

I am still looking for stories of inspiration related to either ttc or just life in general. Send it to cheri22@gmail.com and list "BLOG POST" in the subject line so it can be located easier. I can leave your name off the post if it makes you feel more comfortable about sharing.

So as it stands, my site should be back up and running on June 12th where I will be accepting more requests for predictions. I really do appreciate every ones patience with me while I got things organized.

The worry wart in all of us

I know that us women tend to worry alot, and it never seems to end. I know that I am a positive person, but tend to worry about things as well like everyone else. We worry that we can't conceive, we worry that we will have a miscarriage, we worry during the entire pregnancy that everything will be okay, we worry that the delivery will take too long, we worry that the baby will be really colicky......etc... and trust me, even with the baby in your arms, you still worry. My one daughter is now 5, and I still worry that something might happen. I think that it comes naturally and I try to make sure that shes always safe as possible. Getting her to look both ways, telling her not to talk to strangers or go off with someone..etc. We all do it, we are all mother hens..

Now as always mentioned, trying to be positive is something that really needs to be done. Not only does it make things seem more easy to deal with, but it has a way of bringing good and positive things in your life. You know when your feeling sad and in the dumps and overwhelmed thinking that nothing is going right? And then you find yourself piled down with more issues? Trying to think positive and changing the situation around is always easier than said. But it is possible. When your feeling down, you really need to be able to take a step back and access the situation from a different angle. Perhaps writing out a "to do list" that will help make the challenges seem easier to tackle than trying to keep everything straight in your mind.

Alot of people when getting readings, really want to know if they will experience a m/c, and if I can tell them that. No, I can't, and I won't. I have asked my guides not to show me things like that, and not to show me anything negative, that way the reading is focused on only the positive aspects or personality traits. Who the heck needs bad news? Of course every child is not perfect and certainly going to have their ups and downs, but why focus on something like that? I tend to bring out the positive, and start off with something good to look forward to rather than another thing to worry about. With my accuracy being 85%, I certainly also don't want to start predicting losses either as I would hate to have a feeling it was going to end in m/c, relate that to the person, have them be in such despair and not careful thinking it was the "end' of the pregnancy when in fact that one carries on full term. So hopefully you all understand that.

What I can do, is provide you with the "ribbon of light" technique, again another positive thinking aspect. This should help put your mind at ease, and also help protect the little baby growing inside. I had thought I posted this a long time ago, but I can't locate the page, and neither can a few other people that have been in search of it. So here is below, something you can do when pregnant, and feeling a bit worried and uneasy about it, that will not only help you feel more positive, but also use your own energy to help protect and keep the baby healthy. (Its not a guarantee that all pregnancies will result in a full term baby, but will certainly help in the process!)

As always, you need to be in a calm and relaxed place away from distraction. You need to be sitting with your palms facing up. This helps to bring positive energy into your body. Now in your mind, see a ribbon of "light" doesn't matter what color you choose as your body and soul will automatically direct you to see it in a color that will help. Then imagine it going over and over and over, wrapping your uterus in this color of light, and keep going until you can "see" it covering the entire uterus...then see yourself tying it in a bow.. then say "please use this ribbon of life to help keep my body happy, healthy and safe". I used this technique every time I was feeling uneasy about this pregnancy at the beginning and it really helps to calm your fears and make you feel more positive:)

Astral Projection.....

I am sure that most of you have heard of astral projection and sure that many of you have also experienced this. I haven't myself as when younger read too many Christopher Pike books that had a storey on this and freaked me out! When I am doing a reading for someone, I can often see their surroundings especially when its live. Knowing if someones in the room with them, knowing how their living room is laid out, where the computer is, a hint of colors being light or dark. I do not do this unless specifically directed to by either the person asking for the reading, or if something about the room is important, or the person is willing. No, I do not peek on you while your in the shower or sitting at the computer in your underwear! lol.

I know a few people that I have talked to recently online that have had such vivid experiences in regards to what they know of the "other side' or such strong connections to people who have passed over, that I swear they are actually visiting "home" and just do not realize it:) I know that Sylvia Browne has mentioned this in her books as well.

I located a site that I thought some might be interested in if your wanting to try astral projection. I think that its something that is safe and some might find to be fun, and open up a whole "new world". I have copied/pasted the information here to make it easier, but also provided the link below in case someone wanted to visit the site directly. If anyone has experienced this and would like to share a storey/experience, I would love to hear it! Either post in the comments section or even email me at cheri22@gmail.com with "astral projection" in the subject line so it can be located easier.

In astral projection the conscious mind leaves the physical body and moves into the astral body. The astral body is one of our subtle bodies.

Some people can astral project naturally. Others are afraid to leave the physical body and never are able to astral project. An alternative approach is remote viewing.

In astral projection you remain attached to your physical body by a silver "umbilical type" cord. Some people see the cord and others do not.

You are aware of things you encounter along the way while out of your body.
To astral project, as with all out-of-body experiences - one must feel totally relaxed, clothing fitting comfortable, reclining is best. Often a comforter is best over the body as the physical body sometimes gets cold when you travel out.

ONE METHOD

Find a quiet place . . . free of distractions. . .
Adjust the lighting and room temperature. . .
Adjust clothing . . . footwear . . . eyeglasses.
Sit down or lie down . . .Find a position that is comfortable for you . . .
Quiet your mind . . . Still your thoughts . . .
Relax your body. . .Your face . . . your jaw . . . relaxing . . .Your shoulders . . . your neck . . . relaxed Your arms . . . your hands . . . feel at peace . . .Your torso . . . your hips . . . letting go . . .Your legs . . . your feet . . . totally relaxed . . .
Focus on your breathing . . .Inhale slowly and deeply through your nose . . .Retain the breath as long as is comfortable . . .Exhale through the mouth slowly and completely . . .Repeat for two more breaths . . . or as is comfortable.
Let go of the fear of leaving your physical body.Remember you astral project when you sleep.
See yourself floating away from your physical body.You may feel as release or perhaps hear a sound as you leave.
If you get fearful, please stop as you are not ready for astral projection. Anything done in metaphysics should feel comfortable and easy. If it is stressful, let it go for now, as you are not ready.

There are other ways posted on this site if the first one does not feel right for you

http://www.crystalinks.com/astral.html