What to do?

Its saturday, and I am tired. I feel a cold coming on. It feels to be in my sinus area, leaving me with a stuffy nose, and a tickle in my throat. My eldest is at a birthday party, my youngest is taking a nap....what to do? Well I probably have a million and one things to get done.
1) do the laundry
2)clean the house
3) do my income taxes (3/4 of the way there)
4) answer some emails
5)help my friend with her business paperwork...etc. I am sure that I can list even more things, but certainly not going to help.

I am also feeling tired, so I guess taking a nap should also be on the list, but I know it never really makes me feel better. I tend to feel worse....hmmmm...

Well, tonight is the night I usually catch up with any readings that were delayed, answering some of the free requests and scheduling, so more than likely will leave that for some point tonight when my girls are in bed, and can focus more attention.

My grandpa's funeral has been set for the 6th of March. I guess its really sad that death is a way to bring family together... I probably see my mom and her husband alot, and my sister fairly regularly, but not my dad or my cousins as much as I would like. Perhaps this should put everything into perspective?

Anyone else think that they should be more frequent with their visits?

your loved ones are always with you....

I guess this post could not have come at a better time. About a week ago, I was in the shower (one of my alone times! lol) and I was thinking. I wanted more information on how to translate when someone crosses over, which "side" they come from. Its then that my guides provided me the diagram that I have shown below. Its showing that we are always surrounded by the ones we love. Here and into the afterlife. Our guides continuously follow us around and try and guide us in not only the important things in our life, but sometimes the silliest too.

I posted the other day about following your guides advice even though small and I really should have listened to myself. Yesterday before having to take off my heart monitor (for fast heart beat they think it might be stress) I decided to take my youngest and my two daycare kids to the park. I am 3/4 of the way there, and think that I should be taking the kids to the washroom. I recognized the suggestion, but felt if I listened to stopping at the pool first to use the washroom, then my youngest would assume we were going swimming and then freak out when I did not take her in the pool. So I IGNORED that voice giving me the suggestion and carried onto the park. I get there, kids are out and having fun.. literally FIVE MINUTES goes by and the 5 year old had an accident. He said he just could not hold it anymore. I told him if he had let me known sooner, although we were not close enough to goto the washroom he could have peed on the tree!!! So needless to say, something that would have taken me about 5 minutes for the washroom break when I was "told" to do it, ended up costing me 30 minutes in time to rush back to my house, give him a pair of my eldests daughters jeans while I ran his clothes through the wash/dryer.

So sometimes listening will definately be worth it! I am kicking myself as I do recognize when they are giving me an idea that should be followed, but we all have free will and so we sometimes choose not to follow along:) I guess for those of you who are just learning to tune into your guides its harder to follow as your not always sure if its your own thoughts or that of your guides. The more you listen, the easier it will be to recognize where its coming from:)

Now to also start this off... my grandfather passed away last night at 1:30am. I do feel slightly bad about it of course because I did not make as much of an effort as I should have about going to see him. I could give you excuses about working, daycare, busy, life.... but truth be told, its about WHO is in your life, not about WHAT.. so please, make sure that you spend the time with your loved ones and not have to think about "I wish I had....".

From the draw the other day where we were able to draw five people to win (CONGRATS AGAIN!) Danielle who was post #33 has recently already recieved a reading from me and has decided from the goodness of her heart, that rather than using it again on something she already now has the information from, shes picked another person from the list to win. She has picked VERONICA!!! So congrats to you veronica on winning. Please contact me at cheri22@gmail.com in order to claim your reading!






The chart above explained:

"You" - Obviously refers to yourself

"Significant other" - This refers to your husband or wife, or partner, significant other..etc.

"Guide" - This is your spirit guide(s) They always follow behind you

"paternal/maternal relative" - This is the spot that any relatives would occupy when accompaning you or when involved in a reading wanting to show the connection they have with you. This would relate to any cousins, grandparents, aunts/uncles..etc.

"kids" - this is the spot that they show when a child is on its way or has a message for you (which in turn you might dream about. they could occupy this spot when waiting to be concieved or already on their way (pregnancy)

"Teacher" - This is the spot that your guide or loved one who has passed over will occupy when in the middle of helping you with a lesson or difficult time in your life.

let me know if you have any questions about this chart, or they way I have interpreted the information. Its meant to show you that your never truely alone when it comes to energy and spirits. That they are always surrounding us in love and understanding. If you were to feel an energy/spirit that you were unsure who you were feeling, you can use this chart to try and interpret the images as well.

sometimes paying attention to your guides

can really save you money!

I was at walmart with my two girls. I needed to buy more towels so picked up four of them (they happened to be on sale!) and headed to the cash desk along with a few other things in our cart. She was scanning them in, folding them and putting them in the bag, while I was keeping my eye on my daughter in the front of the cart (she likes to try and climb out) and trying to fish out my debit card from my wallet. When I pay, I usually ask them to put the receipt into the bag or stuff it into my wallet with my card and walk away.

I have been listening to my guides alot more frequently with what they are telling me and this time I was told to check my receipt. I even absent mindly took the receipt that she handed me and went to put it in my pocket, and felt an even more urgent need to look it over (I NEVER do this!). So I did it. Turns out, she charged me for FIVE towels when I only had four. I pointed this error out to her, and she did not really care. Told me to goto customer service to get them to fix it! Frustrating enough, but after 15 minutes in that line up, I got my money back!

I know in our lives its usually busy and pre-occupied, but you really never will know what your guides are letting you know if you dont take the time to stop and listen. Try not to second guess yourself. I am not saying to just jump in with two feet with whatever your being told. I am just saying to listen. Take into consideration to what is being mentioned and really listen. By paying attention, you might be given advice of a decision you should be making, a way to save money or perhaps even getting your money back!

How exciting!

If any of you are on my facebook (cheri bojcic for those of you who want to add me) its been Olympic fever over here! I took my daughter and my god daughter to go Downtown Vancouver to see what we could see. Although we did not have any tickets to the events (didn't want to spare an arm or a leg for the cost of the tickets) we did manage to get into some pavilions, managed to see some free shows, and managed to walk around downtown from 10:00 till around 4pm. Did I mention my foot hurt like crazy the next day? I was not sure if it was when I tripped, or perhaps just walking so much with the wrong shoes on!

Well enough about that. I can't believe that I had 50 comments (yes there was some cheaters you silly gals! But your right it was not mentioned that you could not comment more than once!)

Randomly these are the winners! I have written the post# and the name of the person who won along with who your reading is connected with. Please email me at cheri22@gmail.com with blog winner in the subject line if your unable to contact the person you have won your reading with!


POST# - PSYCHIC - WINNER
9 - Brooke777 - Amanda
12 - Leah - Courtney CW
26 - Cheri22 - Life
33 - Cheri22 - Danielle T
45 - Leah - Cassie Long

I do have something to be posted in the next day or so that I wanted to share with everyone. Its amazing what comes to you through your guides when things are quiet!

Happy Valentines Day!~

Okay this is a short but sweet post! lol. (sorry, funny using the word sweet as its usually candy and such for valentines day!)

my husband and I usually do not celebrate valentines, but this year we managed to go out for dinner with another couple (this is totally rare for us, usually the kids are in tow). The restaurant the other couple choose is EXPENSIVE and I told my husband that it was the first and LAST time we ate there. Lets just say that his dinner alone was THIRTY ONE DOLLARS!!! Yes, there is no spelling error there! lol.

Well I figured I would do something fun for valentines day... For every 10 comments in the comment box I will give away one reading. (combo of myself, Leah and brooke777 depending on how many comments are left). This is good for up to FIVE people to win readings!!!. The draw will be completely random and will allow this contest until WEDNESDAY before announcing the winners! Good luck!

Congrats to......

TRACY, number 19 post!! Please email me and I will get you in touch with Brooke777 for your free reading!

I am not sure who of you have chosen to follow along with the olympics, but looks like the torch is now lite, and everything is ready to go. I am actually hoping to take my daughter on Monday to go downtown Vancouver to see what we can see. I have been told that there are various locations that have allowed countries from out of town to set up and do some pavillions. Showcasing their country and culture. Who knows what else we are going to encounter but I am thinking its going to be fun. I will try and take some pictures so that those of you who do not live in BC and might not see this otherwise can catch a glimpse!

As for the first horrific crash in the olympics, I can't believe it. I did watch it on the news and couldn't believe how much of the accident they showed. Lets just say that I am wishing I hadn't as it seems to be imprinted in my brain. His poor family!

I also wanted to say that those of you with strong empath skills and good with connecting to people who have passed over, hopefully you wont have the same experinece that I had. A client showed me a picture she got from a friend where its clearly showing a little girl standing in the picture and was of spirit form. I was able to get a name i felt connected to, but the one thing is it was almost like now she choose to follow me around last night. Like by channeling her information through the photo was allowing her a portal to come here and visit! Totally creeped me out and had no idea it could be done like that. I told her to go back to where she came from and even tried suggesting she go into the light. So no idea if my clients friends have their ghost back or if shes gone from here for good.

Thank you everyone for continueing to read my blog and participate in my contests and other comments you make. I really do appreciate it.

Whats a gal to do?

Just popping in real quick before I head off to bed. My youngest has been consistently sleeping through the night for the last week or there abouts !!! YEA ME!! Okay, yeah her too! So I am hoping to head to bed now and gets some sleep. I am yawning my head off! Now I do mean this literally. When I was young and "stupid" I as riding my two wheel bike down my street. I had just gotten a mountain bike and was fascinated I guess with those gears. I was looking down at the back of the bikes and changing gears and watching the chain move to the next sprocket. I don't know why I didn't think of it sooner, but I should have looked up. I drove the bike straight into a trailer!!! I really bruised my jaw.. so now when I yawn, if its really big I have to put both hands on either side of my jaw and try and keep it straight. If I don't, I seem to yawn with my mouth/jaw going down and to the right, which makes my jaw out of alignment, and potential for it to "lock" in place. I usually have it momentarily stuck a quick sense of panic, and then a click/pop and an ache as it goes back into place.. not fun!

Now wanted to post something funny that you all might get a kick out of. I believe it was Monday or perhaps this started on Sunday. I had a feeling it was the 10th... On Sunday I felt that... on Monday I felt that, and it was a client of mine who got my automatic reply on Monday that realized my error. I had to laugh. It was not until she pointed out that I had the days wrong, that I realized that for some reason the 10th was stuck in my mind. After fixing the automatic reply for the correct date, I went on with my day. Or so I thought. I realized that even today I am having a hard time knowing that today is the 10th and not the 11th.. so today and tomorrow seem to have some special meaning for me and I have no idea what its going to be. Today was a good day. All the kids were well behaved. We planted flowers into pots that they all painted. No one fought and I did not have to play referee!!! So nothing extraordinary happened today. Perhaps we will see what tomorrow will bring!! Anyone else get stuck with a certain day and keep thinking its a different day entirely?

Dont forget, the post below contains a giveaway!

sometimes its not fun at all!

I do daycare for two kids as well during the week and the mom is going through a hard time. She is pregnant (again) and the father of the baby has just decided to leave her and that he does not want to make it work (shes due in may). So with her life in turmoil and my contact with her a few times a week, has left me a bit stressed. Her kids are wonderful (most of the time) but with her fighting with her other kids father and now the father of the baby lets just say shes beyond stressed. Its times like this being an empath is hard. I find that the closer you are to people, the more you seem to pick up their emotions as your own without really realizing it.

I have three days a week I watch her two kids, and its been this way since September. I am a creature of habit, I like routine and change does not go well with me unless I am aware of it to come or initiate it myself. So its been the last month that things have really gone downhill for this mother and find my own life "interupted" by what is happening in her life. My days getting changed and me left rearrangeing my life in order to be accomodating..

So as you all know, I LOVE helping people and seem to do it whether online or in person. I find though myself taking on some of her stress and being worried about her, even though I am not exactly in her circle of friends. Its time like this I can't stress enough to everyone that when your feeling overwhelmed or stressed because of someone elses situation its time to take a step back and surround yourself with the white light to try and limit their impact on you. You might just not realize how much your own empathic abilities are picking up their emotion and dragging you down too!

I have had to numerous times use the apron of light technique to lesson the impact its having on me. I have done this with the father of her two kids as well as this is his first experinece dealing with daycare situation and lets just say thats not ideal! lol.

I know it will work out, and its going to be so much better as I lesson the connection it seems to have on me. I also feel that this is where my heart anxiety is coming from. Certain things seem to trigger it and seems to coincide with events from the parents.

anyways!!! on a good note, lets give away a reading for BROOKE777!! I want to hear your own stories of recent events that seemed to affect you when technically they should not have..Whether its a friend going through a life lesson, a parent who is sick, something you have seen on TV...etc.. Has it affected you by stressing you out? Making you feel depressed or anxious? etc.

EVERYONE who participates is entered to win. I will announce the winner on FRIDAY!

The olympic torch passed through here

We managed to goto the torch relay here in chilliwack. It was amazing! I was thinking I was doing this to give my girls a memory of something that is likely not to happen here ever again in our life time. I think that this experience also touched me. I know a few times today I was teary eyed and really had to laugh at myself!

Its been a long day and I am not feeling 100%. My husband organized a Superbowl party wtih some friends/family and I think I ate too much! So I sit here with a tummy ache and just feeling blah.. I know you can't really feel for me as this pain is definitely self inflicted!

So this post is going to be kept short so perhaps I can go and head to bed and hopefully get rid of this ache. I will post on Tuesday along with a giveaway!

Reconnecting on a spiritual level

As promised, I wanted to share a new technique with everyone!! This will allow you to reconnect with your partner/significant other/husband on a much deeper level. Most times when on a trying to conceive journey we often loose sight of the connection or the romantic portion of ourselves. It soon becomes a "chore", all about the timing and about making sure that the sperm meets the egg... Rather than the love shared between two people and the act of trying to make a baby. Its hard to refocus your attention on other aspects as with most people, this journey often involves charting, temping, paying attention to cervical mucous and other signs that either the egg is on its way, or that your starting to feel pregnant!

So why not start reconnecting first on a spiritual level? Allowing this to bring you both closer. Getting along better, paying more attention to each other and remembering the love that got you to this point in the first place.

Lets start!

MATERIALS NEEDED
Two pictures - one of you and one of your partner. (its better if no one else is in the picture and no one is wearing hat or sunglasses)
Colored "String" either pink or red

I want you to poke holes in the picture of your partner along the right side of his/her photo (while its facing you).. not too many that it rips it apart, but enough that its still "close". Then I want you to do the same thing on your picture but the left side (again while the picture is facing you). Then I want you to take a ribbon that appeals to you and symbols love.. usually pink or red, but whatever works for you. Then I want you to put both ends in,...one on your side and one on his/her, then alternating sides through the holes (to look like laces). At the bottom (or top depending on where you started) I want it tied into a bow. I want you to then hold the picture now sewn together against your heart area. In your mind (or out loud if you prefer) i want you to say "by binding these pictures together of myself and (insert husband/partner name here) i am allowing our connection to be happier, more loving and passionate" Anything else you can say that would be positive about perhaps even saying that you will both get along better enjoy each other company.. dont include anything negative (even saying "we Will fight less" as this too is still kinda negative)

Then I want you to sleep with it under your pillow for at least one week to 8 days... during that time if your feeling disconnected from your husband/partner for any reason at all (it should definitely lesson from the first time you did the stuff above) take it out from under your pillow, again place it on your chest near your heart and say the same things... you will be amazed at how this STARTS to get you guys back on track.

if you have any questions about this process or notice a difference would love to hear your comments!

a day late.. but here is the winner!!!

SHANISE!!! Congrats to you on winning this contest! Please click on the lower right link labeled Brooke777 and email her. Let her know you were the winner of the blog and she will take care of the rest:)

February is a month that should be about "love". I think that every month is a month you should always try and connect with your spouse. I know its hard while ttc, and with life being busy sometimes its easier to just go through the emotions rather than putting in alot of effort. In the next day or two I will be posting a way you can strengthen your bond with your partner that's easy and fun to do!

I just wanted to post something today thats been happening at my house for the last week. Its kinda "Creepy"....I have been hearing our baby gate at the top of the stairs open and close. Only no kid has come down the stairs (They were to be in bed). My husband has heard it once as well and both of us listened a bit more to hear if we could see/hear anyone. I even walked up the stairs and kinda peeked around. Both of our girls were in bed and fast asleep. LIttle did I know this would only be the start of it.

I am excellent when it comes to communicating with loved ones who have passed over for clients, but this spirit would not let on who it was. The only information I could gather was it was a male. It was NOT my spirit guide Tomas, and this spirit seemed to give off a mischeivious feeling. I tried to ignore it, I even asked for it to go away! lol. Nothing. Then over the last few weeks (last week especially) was getting annoying and yet also creepy. I could hear footsteps coming up behind me, and turn and no one there. (girls in bed and husband out at hockey). I would feel someone watching and again no one there. It was literally driving me crazy knowing that "someone" was there. One night, as I lay in bed (with the door open so light could shine in, cause it was really starting to get me a little on edge) I used the light to surround and protect myself from any negative energy, I used it on my girls and the house (again husband was at hockey). I even tried telling this spirit to head into the light!! Everything I could except the white candle trick to cleanse the house. I emailed Brooke777, Leah and Elisabeth with my concerns. Usually if you ask them to leave and go into the light they do. I have NEVER dealt with a spirit who refused that. Brooke777 emailed me back with her take on what was happening which I had felt connected to what she said. Then I heard back from leah who too also had some good information for me.

Later that night, nothing had happened. No noises, no feelings...nothing. It was as if he just left now that everyone was on to him, and it was no longer "fun". I dont get the sense he was doing this to be mean, but was certainly getting a kick out of keeping his identity a secret and making me nervous. I woke up that morning and the house felt "clean".. "lighter" in a spiritual sense and it felt good (the last few weeks had an energy about it.. a "fog" if you will... I thought it was amazing.. it was also the first night my youngest slept through the night. I emailed Brooke777 and Leah and told them what happened and how "clean" the house now felt. Leah actually emailed me back, letting me know that night she meditated on me and the house and did a cleanse.. so now it makes sense why it felt good to have his energy "cleansed" and have my house back!

I am still learning about the spirit world myself and have never encountered this, so will have to learn on how to do a cleanse the way Leah did it. If anyone else feels this way, perhaps give her an email to find out her take on it, and what she can do to help?

Today just before heading into the computer room to post this blog, I heard the baby gate again... My youngest is sound asleep. Hopefully its not another visit from Mr Sneaky :)

(PS. since the house has been cleansed, my youngest is now sleeping through the night. if you follow my blog from previous, you know that she wasn't for the longest time! I am not sure if its because of the cleanse, or perhaps her teeth are finally through, but in anycase, its surely welcomed!!!)