Is this where I shake my head and laugh at myself?

Last night I was talking to my husband explaining the things I want to be done around the house to make it feel "Safer". Hes all worried and even thinking that he just won't go away for any guys weekends as the two times hes gone, its always been those times when something like the alarm going off happens.

I am having problems with alarm for where the windows are. Its the location where the alarm says that was set off. I have opened both my daughters bedroom windows, closed them and relocked them. It still wont let me re-alarm the house and so I have to bypass the alarm. To make a long storey short, I went into my room last night and opened and closed that window and viola!! The alarm is back on again! So I am starting to think that perhaps the train ( that goes by a few blocks away) must have moved the window just slightly enough to set off the alarm. Now I am wondering if this is what has happened the first time and this time too.. is the window just being slightly off and it was no one being there and trying to get in. At least I can hope that is what it was!

Horoscope Tuesdays

I found this really cool site that does daily horoscopes and I figured I would post one on every Tuesday.. kinda as a way to get things really exciting. When I visited my google home page, my horoscope told me not to do any chores!!! What a great horoscope! So I just had to listen! So today I went to visit and again thought it was a really neat one and would share. So every Tuesday I will try and post the "Horoscope Tuesday" and perhaps if you remember to visit that day, the horoscope will apply to you:)


Tuesday, Sep 29th, 2009 -- Messenger Mercury stands still in analytical Virgo now in order to change direction, completing the retrograde phase started on September 7. Since then we have each, in our own ways, revisited the past, reconsidered the present and reevaluated our plans for the future. Now, as Mercury turns direct, we must begin to turn our thoughts into action. The intelligent Aquarius Moon adds a touch of eccentricity as we move into the next cycle of manifestation

You should be able to expect your first post from Elisabeth on Wednesday as well!

Do you want to know the "best" way to get woken up?

well, I can tell you its NOT having your house alarm being set off at 4:30am AGAIN! This is the second time in one year that this has happened. Both times my husband has been away for the weekend! (he got back today)

I was sleeping, and woke up to the house alarm being set off. I was more worried about the baby being woken up and freaking out from the noise, so went and checked on her after I shut the alarm off.. Shes sound asleep! I then wait for the alarm company to call.. no call. I walk back to the alarm pad it shows the same code as previous.. back window.. which means the same floor I am on and down the hall. Can you say "chicken"!! I was too freaked out and pushed the "police" button to have someone come by and check out the house. All that stupid button does it set off the alarm AGAIN and then I have to shut it off again for the alarm company to call me. I managed to call 911 on the cell phone and request someone to come by and explained why. They had no problems with that at all. The alarm company calls, and they just asked why I pushed the button.. ah, because the alarm went off and it was a back window sensor!! DUH! lol. Okay, so perhaps not an entirely stupid question, but honestly, I am sure any woman would call for someone to come when just alone with the kids. (my eldest was on a sleep over). He told me I should have left the alarm on rather than pushing the police button.. Umm..gee.. last time this happened around a year ago, they told me I should turn it off so that way they can call. This gets so confusing which is why I was glad I didn't bother with them and just phoned the police myself!

A nice police officer came by and checked the place out and found no signs of entry.. so that is always nice to hear. But lets just say that I did not sleep very well for the rest of the night! Looking forward to hitting the sack hopefully early tonight!

Anyways, for the first five people who responded to the blog post, please email me at cheri22@gmail.com and put BLOG POST in the subject line so I can schedule you:). This would have been the post from Thursday!(about the bees) Congrats to the winners!

Repost - Positive thinking excersies while trying to conceive!

I always direct people to my blog especially for this post. I know TONS of women who have tried it and had it work for them. (including myself twice!) So since it got buried (posted on Feb 4, 2008) rather than sending everyone digging for it, I am re posting it. If you have any questions about how to do it, please either email me cheri22@gmail.com with BLOG COMMENT in the subject line as it will help me locate your email faster. If you used this as had success with it, would love to hear your storey! Either post in the comment section or email me:)

here it goes!

I will probably mention this till I am blue in the face, its always important to remain positive. Even when things seem at their worst, a positive attitude will see you through.

I have mentioned to countless woman who were seeking my predictions to also incorporate these positive thinking exercises while trying to conceive. I know I have sent numerous people to my blog in search of this for what I talk about. To make it easier, I have added the label "positive thinking exercises" so that anyone can find it at any time.

I have mentioned this before, the first time I started trying to conceive our first daughter, I had tried for a few months, and like everyone else trying to conceive, would be distraught over my period showing up! The month I decided to use my positive thinking exercises, is the same month I got pregnant with my daughter! (who will be 5 in may)

So, when trying to conceive baby number 2, I started right away with these exercises and got pregnant the first cycle! (Due May 28 at this point!)

here are the "instructions". if anyone has any questions about it please reply in the comments section and I will answer your questions:)

POSITIVE THINKING - TIP/TRICKS

After having intercourse (or insemination for some) stay in bed with your hips elevated for 20 minutes. Do not get out of bed until this time. With your eyes closed, I want you to envision the sperm going up and into your uterus, and envision the sperm meeting up with your egg, and getting inside. After you have pictured this, say in your mind "this is my month to conceive. I feel relaxed and at peace. I am ready for this baby".. etc. I want you to do this at least three times...

You can do this every time you have sex if you like, but its most important at your approx time for ovulation.your mind is a powerful thing.. you will be amazed at what you will accomplish.

I think that you need to also cut out pictures of babies, and put on your fridge. these are positive goals, ways to set your mind forward.. positive thinking....I know a few other women who have tried this, and had much success as well.

I feel so guilty!!!

Last year and this year we have had a wasp nest in the window/vent for our attic. The problem is this "window/vent" is right above our patio door. You can't touch it without a ladder, but for the last few months have been keeping an eye on it. I could see about 20 of them the other day all climbing over the vent and working on their hive. I called the exterminators to find out how to get rid of them, if they are aggressive as the hive gets bigger. The man on the phone I talked to, told me that what I was describing sounded like a large nest since its started to come on the outside and with how many I was seeing. This freaked me out! I watch two other kids a few days a week besides my own and I did not want anyone to get stung by any bees, so I scheduled the hive to be removed today at 3pm. Earlier today while we were outside on the patio, I was sweeping up some fallen leaves and noticed one of the bees dead on the patio. Most times we come out in bare feet, or just socks so was worried one of the kids would step on it (or worse pick it up) and felt good about my decision to remove the wasps (never know if I should call them bee or wasp!) Anyways, the exterminator turned out to be a female, took one look at the nest, told me they were "umbrella wasps" and that it would be a small nest and easy to remove...... Also told me I could probably have done it myself at night with raid since these ones are usually smaller hives, yet the guy on the phone made it sound like it was a swarm! lol) Anyways, the kids all were inside while this took place and actually were excited to watch her "remove" the bees (they are freaked out knowing its there and one of the girls refuses to go outside knowing she has to go out the door with them being there).

So after it was done and most of the bees flew off (unfortunately with the dusting they receive, they will not live) and a few fell to the ground obviously stunned and near death. This is where my guilt comes in. They never attacked me, were just doing their "jobs" and I threw them out of their home.. Okay, I "murdered" them. Now thinking back, wish I could have found a way to just evict the little buggers :(

Anyways, today is Thursday, and will do a give away.. I am actually offering something from myself.. the first 5 people who respond to this post with a comment receive a free fertility reiki OR a free reading (10.00 value)!!!

Off to do a bit of work and hopefully squeeze in the opener of Grey's Anatomy!

Well, lucky number 3, Krystal is the winner of the last reading for SILKE who is the one who is going to be doing the astrology readings. Shes been doing astrology for years now mostly for friends and family and is now going to be offering it for other people who are interested.

She can do fertility readings, personality, compatibility between kids/parents/siblings... she has endless amounts of what she can offer. Feel free to email her with any questions.

At this time, she does not currently have a website (but one is currently being built) but I have been given an email address for anyone who is interested in getting a reading from her to contact her here (if you have problems with the link you can copy/paste this - cjsspape@yahoo.com)

Here is feedback from one of the previous winners of her readings.

- I won the free prediction from the secret psychic (Silke) and I have nothing but WONDERFUL things to say!!! Here I was expecting just a line or two of her prediction and she gave me pages and pages of personality and compatibility profiles for my husband and I.

She did say that she saw a BFP very soon resulting in a baby. I never expected THIS soon so I'm thrilled!!!
I am not sure what shes charging, or if shes offering free readings, but you can always email her first if you would like to find out more information.

Well, its 11:15pm here and I need to get to bed. One thing about having a cold is you need your "beauty rest" to try and get rid of it, and I need to be up before 7am!

Kids starting school = colds/flus and germs!

Well, my daughter is back to school and its been two weeks and we are already suffering from our first cold! Started off with the little one, then our eldest and myself got it. Its plugging up my left ear and my left nose, which is funny because how can a cold only affect the left side of your body and not the right? (not that I want it to balance itself out or anything!)

So, now I am sure that this is something that is going to be a frequent thing in our house.I am hoping people have tips on how to try and prevent this? My husband drove me nuts last night. I guess I was snoring because of my cold and he thought that waking me up 5 times last night to tell me that i was snoring was a good thing! How am I supposed to get better if I am not getting a good nights sleep? The little one already wakes me up during the night at times, I don't need him too! I swear I will get even! (okay not really, I can usually tune out his snoring if I choose)

I was reading this article in the Today's Parent magazine about "going green". I already do a few things here myself, but always open to more things (I recently switched all chemicals to shaklee to reduce the amount of chemicals in our house to basically zero) Anyways, did you know that doing laundry in "non-peak" times is actually good? I had no idea it really mattered? They said from 10am to 5pm is non-peak and from 10pm till 5am is also non-peak time. So I have just put a load in and will see how well I can stick to this and try and reduce the amount of energy. Here we also pay for our energy use, so perhaps this will save money? (who knows I guess I will find out)

Okay, so today is the last give away for the secret psychic, and I have another person in mind to start next week and will see if they are interested before giving out any information. I always believe that people come into your life at certain points to help along the journey, friendship or lessons...etc.

So to be entered to win for this contest, you need to either provide a tip about going green (how to reduce your impact on the earth) or provide a tip on keeping germs at bay! (colds/flu's) You have until Wednesday night to participate! I will announce the winner tomorrow night.

(speaking of flu's, anyone getting vaccinated for the H1N1 (swine flu?)

Did I ever mention i am a "penaholic"?

Yep, you read that right. I think I am addicted to pens. I know that a person can technically only use one pen at a time, but I just seem to love collecting them. I usually get them at the dollar store and like different types! I am not sure where this "collecting" started from or even why, but even though I probably have like 50 or more pens here at home, today while at the dollar store, I bought ANOTHER pack of like 5 pens that had neat colors. Got them home, all excited to use one for tonight while doing my work, only to find out that they are mechanical pencils! A funny thing about me (besides my obvious quirk on collecting pens) that I HATE the feel of velvet, it drives my fingers nutty, but also do not like the sound of mechanical pencils while they write!

Here is a picture of my pens (just so you can have a good laugh). Its all in my drawer of my desk.
I used to have it in this pen holder on my desk, but my little one decided it was a neat game to empty all of them out of the holder and spread them around on my desk!

Anyone else have a "collection" of things that they just keep adding to for really no reason at all other than they like to collect them?

This weekend was a busy one for me. I took both my girls and my friends daughter to the zoo today. Nice weather for it, cloudy and not too hot and not too cold. I actually let the littlest one out of the stroller and let her walk around a bit so she could really see it well (we have been before, but usually kept her in the stroller as she would tire easily and not want to walk anymore) I just thought it was so exciting today to see her sense of amazement in regards to the things she was actually paying attention to this time. The marmosets where really what got her attention and she was screeching so loud with excitement. I wish I had remembered my camera.

Something I plan on taping and showing all you is when I let the little one have some chocolate pudding (yes I know not the best thing for her, but it could be worse and it keeps her happy!) She gets COVERED over her face with it. She does NOT like to be dirty especially her hands. After letting her feed herself with a spoon, I bring her a mirror and show her what she looks like. She sits there for a second and registers that its her, and then she kind does this little whine/cry and you can tell shes upset that her face is dirty. Its so cute and funny! I am going to video tape it for everyone to see and try and post it in the next few days!

I hope everyone had a good weekend!

Dont forget, tuesday is the last of the giveaways for the secret psychic!

Loving facebook right now!

There is something called a "status shuffle' that is pretty entertaining. Multiple options to choose that you can update your status with and quite a few of them have me in tears laughing so hard! You will have to check out that application when you have time!

Been tired this week, but not really having those breathing problems since Friday. I think that I am going to give most of the credit to you wonderful ladies who tried using your own reiki energy towards me!! So thank you all! For those of you with the feeling in your hands, I would suggest going and getting your level one reiki if you have time. The attunement alone is totally worth it. It usually will help open things up a bit more so that you can even access other areas of your own gifts.

So lets get started.. the winner of the secret psychic is poster number 14!! KATE! Please email me at cheri22@gmail.com and I will forward you to the person you need to get in contact with in order to claim your free reading! Next Tuesday is the LAST one, so for those of you who still have yet to win a reading with the secret psychic, one more chance! That's when I will announce who she is and how to contact her if any of you are interested in finding out more:)

I am currently doing some replies and organizing things before I get started tonight and watching Americal Got Talent.. Its the last show before they announce the winner. I have no idea who I want to win. I have not really been watching the show enough to really have a favorite, and I can certainly see all of them being at Las Vegas and doing the performances..

Call me tired...it was one of those nights!

My daughter had her first dance class and I left the youngest with Daddy.. if I took her in the car, she would have passed out and then up till 10pm and that's so much harder when I start my readings at 9pm when both girls are in bed. Well my husband let the little one fall asleep at 6pm!!!! So fast forward, I told him to just put her to bed, as waking her up she would act like it was a nap. She woke up at 4:30am! It took me 45 minutes of turning her back over from a sitting position to laying on the bed beside me, before she finally stopped asking to go and watch Barney and fell back asleep! Not a fun night! lol. Okay, yes, laughing now, but next time if this happens, my husband will be getting up with her!

no updates in regards to my drs appt. I have had the blood tests done, the x-ray completed and the dr I am sure will have these by Tomorrow. So if no call by Friday should I assume that there is nothing wrong, or would you be making a follow up appt anyways to try and get to the source of this all?? What would you do?

Anyways, its time for the secret psychic again and because I am tired and ready to head to bed, will make this an easy one. Everyone who posts in the comment section is entered to win. I will announce the winner WEDNESDAY NIGHT!

Positive affirmations

Positive affirmations will help you increase fertility and general well-being through relaxation.

Using positive affirmations is a form of healing based on re-wiring your subconscious mind to new and more positive thinking while allowing the release old negative thinking.

During your life you may have taken up negative thinking patterns based mostly on your fears, life uncertainty and discouraging experiences. These negative thoughts are now the cause of your mental and emotional blocks that might prevent you from allowing the process of conception to take place within your body. Positive affirmations are a great way to meditate and to bring a positive outlook back into your life.

If you stop for a moment and think about it, you will notice that you already practise affirmations all the time. When you tell others that you are going to do something, you are affirming something that you intent to manifest into your life. In order for you to manifest an idea into reality, you first have to create a thought, then you have to express this thought either verbally or mentally in the form of a sentence or an image and then you have to choose the actions necessary to manifest it.

Positive affirmations are meant to support you through the process of conception by helping you to release all the mental blocks that prevent you from truly manifest your desire to become pregnant and assist you to affirm positive and encouraging thoughts into action

Affirmation for Manifestation

Positive affirmations help you manifest into your life what you have desired for so long. It is time to allow the manifestation process to take place.

The universal life force brings me new creative energy.

I welcome my time to be a parent.

I graciously accept my creative powers.

I allow the creative forces within me to be released.

I allow my creative energies to work through me and bring me a healthy pregnancy and baby.

I deserve the best outcome and with joy I am thankful of a new life.

I experience a profound connection to the miracle of life.

I now manifest my decision to have a baby.

Affirmation for Fertility with the Angels

Angels are part of the universal force as they are energy and spiritual beings. You do not have to believe in their existence, you just need to be willing to ask for their help and support. You will be surprised how much love and light they can bring into your life. Needless to say that I love Angels, they saved and changed my life! These positive affirmations will help you surround yourself to their love and healing energies.

I ask the angelic healers to remove any block that prevents me from getting pregnant.

I surround to the healing forces of the universe.

I ask Archangel Raphael to deeply heal my mind, body and soul now.

I ask the Angels for guidance and protection every day.

I am thankful for all I am and all I have. I am at peace.

I am thankful to God and the Angels for their help, protection and guidance.

I listen to my inner guidance and I act based upon my intuition.

I listen to subtle messages that the universe is sending me so that I can find the right therapy for my case.

I ask Archangel Michael to guide and protect me at all times.

It is a good idea to practice positive affirmations while you meditate.

You can also say your affirmations out loud by looking in the mirror or you can write them down in your journal. I sometime like to send myself an e-mail containing affirmations I know I will need to read at a later time. The choice is yours, but most of all be creative!

For more positive affirmations for all aspects of your life, head to this website and check out the rest!

http://www.natural-health-for-fertility.com/positive-affirmations.html

Congrats to.......... (here is my trumpet blowing)

SHEENA! You were the lucky winner tonight! Please email Brooke777 (lower right link) and let her know that your the lucky winner of today's blog!

Okay, thank you all ladies who participated in the blog contest (and even those of you who wished me well but did not actually participate) I really do believe that "healing circles" can do wonders for people and with using reiki I do think that it really helps to either lesson the symptoms or even cure! Now for me, I am happy to report that as of late Friday night and yesterday this has been so much better for me. Its happened a few times with the breathing but barely... So not sure if its a coincidence or not, but I am willing to give you ladies a claim to helping! I still plan on following through with the blood test I need to go and get tomorrow, and hopefully the Dr lets me know if he saw anything on the x-ray or blood test. I guess part of me hopes that there is nothing on there and that they don't call.. but the other part hopes that there is something enough that it would explain what was happening (like a lung infection). It drove me nuts. Happened for just over 2 weeks. Today feeling pretty good. My little one decided that being up at 5:30am was a good thing. I actually for the first time in like "ever" decided to take nap today when the baby napped. My husband was nice enough to take our oldest out for a few hours while baby and I napped. (about 1.5 hours).

As for the blog, I am hoping to add a few people to comment on the posts, provide you with psychic insight and just make this blog a "one stop shop" for tons of information! I already have brooke777 on board who has committed to posting on the 15th of every month. (Starting OCTOBER) and just need to get in touch with two others. Elisabeth is intrigued, but we have to see how she does time wise as shes really busy. I am hoping to find out who else.

Don't forget Tuesday is the secret psychic again! I can't wait to give away her next reading!

The dr appt, and the giveaway!

Well I went to the dr for 9:30am this morning and explained what I was experincing. He asked if I had childhood asthma but I have not. So he sent me to have x-rays and then also blood tests> I have already done the x-ray and now just for the blood test. If anything comes out of it hes going to call me and let me know. So I guess its just a waiting game now!

I have been tired lately, but this can also be because we have had to get up early and get ready to make sure that the girls have eaten breakfast and dressed so we can drop my eldest off at school. She seems to like it, but tonight was she ever emotional. I think that this week has finally caught up with her and I have put her to bed early tonight.

I am currently a day behind in the readings so for those of you waiting I do appreciate your patience. I will be caught up by tomorrow night at the latest.

Now in regards to the contest, this should be easy and something fun to try. I want you to see my face in your minds eye, and have your hands towards the computer screen with your palms facing the computer. You are going to see with your minds eye a light coming from your palm and going into the computer and ask it to connect to me. Your going to wish me "healing" energy. Its a form of reiki by using your energy to try and "heal". So hopefully whatever I am experiencing will be less with the good help of all you ladies!

What you should experience for some is a bit of heat radiating from your hands. Others might feel a more emotional connection to this... there is no wrong way to do this. Some even might find themselves connected more to their guides as well... it can be an "enlightening" experience.

if you tried this please put your experience in the comments section on what you felt while doing it or up to a 1/2 hour after you did it. Anyone who posts will be entered to win. We are giving away a reading for Brooke777! I will announce the winner from Random draw Sunday night!

(thanks in advance for all your well wishes:) lol)

The winner announced!

NICHOLE! Congrats to you on winning the secret psychic contest this time around. please email me at cheri22@gmail.com so I can forward you to the right email address to claim your reading.

As for everyone else, thanks for giving this a try and including past memories of when this happened. This technique is actually a bit different than the phone call one where I had you "tell" someone mentally to give you a call as I am not asking you to tell the person who is hiding the item to put it where you want. What I was asking is for you to just sit with your mind open and then "visualize' where they put it. Its almost like using your remote viewing technique, but since you were holding onto the object before it was hidden, sometimes your energy is "attached' to this object which should make it easier than finding something you had not seen or touch.

For me, when I was about 16 I was hanging around with a few of my friends at my house in my back yard. We were jumping on the trampoline and my friend Dan noticed his phantom of the opera necklace was now gone. He was literally PANICKED! His dad is totally the type that would have FREAKED!. He started looking around. Well, I actually pointed to one area and said "its in there" and we all jumped off and went an looked, and its exactly where he found it! I didn't really realize my extent of my gift at that time, but things would always happen like that when hanging around this particular friend.

I have found on occasion a few objects for clients of mine and I too am working harder on this aspect of my gift. I usually do get a sense on "where' to start looking.

This week has been a bit "harder" for me. My eldest daughter is in school full time now and its just a matter of getting myself into routine. As bad as it is to admit, during the summer we would wake up whenever the little one would, and we would lounge around in our pj's until we had to head out.. How funny is that! So its been a bit harder, setting the alarm for 7am, jumping out of bed and then having a quick shower so I can get everyone ready. Not to mention not last night but the night before, our littlest one decided that she was going to get up for 11:30pm and stay up until almost 2am, so last night was harder as I was going on only 5 hours sleep! (I need at least 7 to function like myself! lol)

Anyways guys and gals, keep tuned for the blog give away on Thursday:)

Okay, lets play a little secret!!!

Okay, its secret psychic time! I have a few seconds before I get started with my readings so figured I would post early tonight for the game of secret psychic. This is going to be fun, but a bit more complicated and certainly challenge you guys to really open up to your gifts. There is certainly no harm in trying and if it does not work for you, then try again! It will only strengthen your gift. As with all of my give ways, anyone who tries this and responds with a post on their experience is automatically entered to win. Please remember though, by entering this contest, you are agreeing to keep this psychic secret for two additional weeks. After that time, feel free to share her information with whom ever you choose.

I want you to hold on to something. This can be a set of keys, a rock, a ring.. (doesn't matter as long as its an object). I want you to close your eyes, and visualize yourself putting an "energy" of light around this object. Keep your hands closed on it while you do this. Concentrate. It does not matter what color you use to encircle this object, any color will do.

I then want you to hand the object to your husband/partner/friend/child and ask them to hide it in the house somewhere and not to tell you where it is. Give them a few minutes to get it hidden. Then I want you to sit there, and visualize where it is. I want you to write the information you get on a piece of paper. Are you seeing them sticking it under something? Are you being shown a drawer? Do you see any colors to clue you in?? Write this down. Then I want you to go and look for it. I want to see if you guys can locate the object, or even close to where it is. Here is the trick, not only are you using your remote viewing technique, but you are also using your energy to locate this. As you get closer, you should be able to "feel" it or "sense" its where abouts.

Now dont fret if you don't locate it the first time. When you do find where its hidden (either on your own, or having to ask) compare its surroundings with your initial vision... where you given similar information but perhaps misunderstood the meaning? Again, there is no wrong way to do this. It will strengthen and open your abilities in these gifts!

Everyone has until WEDNESDAY night to try this exercises and enter the draw. I will announce the winner Wednesday night.

Now a SHORT blurb. Thank you guys all for forwarding and posting the warning about Ruby to the people you talk with. It has caused her to admit the truth FINALLY (after an email to Elisabeth denying it all) Shes left with no choice but to own up. I am hoping she posts on the two week wait site and apologizes to everyone for what shes done. Its not going to make up for what shes done. Not sure you can after doing it for the second time and being caught at it again. Karma! Now lets move on from this "negative" energy connected to this situation and have fun and move forward to better and greater things!

Ruby has already been at work -

For those of you just tuning into the blog now and reading the post below, she had already removed the link that showed her post advertising herself as Serenity72 and offering her psychic services along with the picture she had included... so just goes to show you how desperate she is to continue this charade!

please everyone... still pass out the comments below. I really feel its in every ones best interest to be aware before making their decision about who they use. Not everyone seems to be doing this for the best interests of their clients.

Ruby - I know you read my blog. Its time you start doing this the HONEST way and stop the way your promoting yourself.

lets get the cat out of the bag shall we?

First and foremost, its always been my best intentions to NEVER say anything negative about anyone. (okay sometimes my Mother in law drives me batty!) But I always try and not say anything bad about anyone. try and focus on the positive and not say anything bad even when someone is to ask me about another psychic. I have the ones listed below that I trust and recommend. This is not to say that you can't use anyone else. I actually encourage you to find the psychic that you feel connects to you the most. (of course pick me!!! lol. but thats another storey!)

So let me get this off my chest. I have kept quiet about this for too long and really feel that this needs to be brought up. For those of you reading the blog, please PLEASE pass this along. I want people to be aware of what is going on and not be taken for granted. I really do not agre with what is happening and feel that its in everyones best interest to be aware, thus allowing themselves to make the best choice possible.

Yes, for those of you who have figured it out. I am talking about Ruby. Although I do believe her to have a gift, I believe that she is using her gift more for money than doing things the honest way. I believe that this is misleading ALOT of you in regards to how she goes about promoting herself.

As most of you remember, she often posted on numerous sites "tooting" her own horn. She posted as numerous people on different sites saying how good Ruby was and that everyone should try her out. She approached me and asked me to put a conncetion on my site. I am a very good judge of character and something did not sit right with me. I actually googled her and located all these posts and I confronted her. She denied it at first, but later came clean to everyone and apologized. I believed at that time she had gotten off on the wrong foot. I had let it go and although I refused to put her on my site (or even link her from the blog) I never said anything bad to her about to anyone else.

Now lets bring us to why this post is important shall we? Now most of you are aware of Elisabeth (She is one of the psychics that is kind enough to offer her readings to be given away on my blog) shes being "attacked" by a poster named serenity72. Any post on Two week wait that mentions how good elisabeths readings are, are automatically followed by someone named Serenity72 posting about how wrong she was, and how much better Ruby was. Everytime someone posts in there about how Ruby has not provided their reading and they are going to ask for a refund, they get an email shortly after with it completed and they are in shock thinking shes truely psychic and new that they were at the end of their rope with waiting. I feel horrible that these ladies on this site in particular are being trolled.. yes. you guessed it.. By Ruby :(

I do not think that any of the psychics should be on the boards, unless its otherwise stated. I like to have very little information about my clients (only pregnancy number mostly) and going to all the sites I think would cloud that vision or compromise it. I am ONLY on todays parent and even then dont get there very much lately!

Okay, so how did all of this get put together? Well Elisabeth is a bit upset, as the poster serenity72 is bashing her. yes, people are allowed to not always be pleased about their reading, but when its made up and the dates are fabricated (elisabeth was not offering readings at the time this was stated to have occured) and then tooting her own horn. Elisabeth called her out on the boards, telling her to apologize to everyone on Two week wait for what she has done, as well as delete her fabricated posts with an apology to Elisabeth for trying to hurt her reputation in order to gain clients for herself. Well lo and behold elisabeth gets an email from Ruby saying that its NOT her who is posting under serenity72.. Now first off, how the heck would Ruby know that this post was there if she was not a frequent user to that forum/post? Second of all, Elisabeth has done alot of digging, located numerous posts where it mentions how good she is as a psychic all followed by a post from Serenity72 saying how bad she is and everyone should goto Ruby.

I do not feel good that this is happening and decided to look into it myself. I googled Serenity72 and put in Psychic as well. This is the link I was given http://www.cafemom.com/group/39003
Now the sad part, as you can see, Serenity72 is offering psychic readings? Coincidence? No. Unforutnetly I myself have provided Ruby (not her real name) with a reading and was sent that EXACT same picture to use for her connection. So I know that Ruby and Serentity72 are the exact same person.

So in all, I am just saying for you to make up your own mind about who this person is and to be aware. I am not saying she does not have a gift (I do think she does) but I also do not thin that she is being trustworthy or honest, and in my opinon, that kinda is an important thing when helping people with your psychic gifts. If shes trolling your posts, how do you know that the readings shes given you were not skimmed from what you had written?

When ordering a reading from a psychic (ANY PSYCHIC) do NOT provide which site your from nor your login name. I NEVER ask for this information. The only time its ever requested is AFTER you have gotten your reading and have an update (like gender confirmation or a bfp - so I can update my site with your good news) This is never asked before. I start my predictions "blind" and never have any information before hand. You will NEVER find me lurking in the sites. I am someone who is always honest, I have nothing to hide, and my reputation and my clients mean everything to me. All of my clients are word of mouth. I would NEVER post on a site to gather new clients. I do appreciate each and everyone one of you who have contacted me for a reading whether its a free request, or a paid one. Each is treasured by me. I have met alot of amazing woman and hope that i can provide an amazing service.

So please, if you can, either post this information to the members on your site giving them the warning, or linking them to this post of this blog. Feel free to comment on this matter.> and yes Ruby, I am aware of you reading my blog as well. I am hoping you don't remove the information from the link I have posted before everyone has had a chance to find out what your up to. Shame on you.

(to find out more information on what has happened with elisabeth and her storey, check out her blog, link located on the right side I think? Or is it the left? lol)

Driving myself nuts!

For those of you already on my face book, I am sure you can see from my status update what is bothering me know. I had a feeling when I turned 33 that my health issues from the past year were going to be over and I would not have to deal with things like this for awhile. Well starting last week I would be just doing "nothing"... sitting there, or driving, and I would all of a sudden feel out of breath. And when something like that happens, of course you pay more attention to it, and perhaps feel a bit anxiety and wonder what the heck is going on. I have had this happen now off and on during the day for the last week. I kept thinking perhaps I was just over reacting to when it happened, and making it worse.. then I started to think that perhaps it was just me looking for it to happen and causing it to happen, and when it did, I would try and ignore it and distract myself. Okay I know it sounds silly as you would certainly think that with having breathing issues of any kind that one would goto the Dr. Well I thought I would wait it out. I have been at the Dr's more time in my life in the last year (with myself and our youngest and her ear infections) that I felt "stupid" for heading in there for something I "might" be causing without realizing it.

Well it seems to be happening more frequently and I felt I would rather be "stupid" for going and realizing its something silly, than finding out by ignoring it I have made it worse. Its more noticeable now, and not something I can just ignore. Its not really causing my any problems, other than when its happening I couldn't "sing" or do something that would need to have any energy or alot of breath? Does that make sense? Its almost like I have been walking up tons of stairs really fast and gotten to the top and your slightly out of breath... that's what this feels like, only I am not doing anything that would cause me to feel this way.

My Dr does not have any appts available until next Friday so that would be the day. I will let you all know what happens! Wish me luck that its just something "stupid".

Now Thursday giveaway this week, but keep tuned in for Tuesday with the next Secret psychic!

September's Special of the month

I thought I would offer this as this months special. Anyone who purchases the archangel reading, or the sibling express reading in SEPTEMBER will get automatically the fertility reiki for free! I will need you to please provide a picture of you that shows you head to toe.

This process is ideally better to happen 5 days BEFORE you ovulate. Its a longer reiki session that focuses not only on clearing your chakras, but also with going through your fertility system and ensuring that everything is clear and in good working order. I will encircle it with a ribbon of light that will also help with conception and get the uterus, the tubes and ovaries all working together, which should help in conceiving. There is more to it than listed here, but figured I would give you an idea of what to expect. If you decide to purchase one of the options listed, please include SEPTEMBER special somewhere in your email as this is connected to blog readers and will not be posted on my site. (You may mention the special to other people, but they still need to include that they are taking advantage of the September special.)

This session will usually pick up any health issues that you are currently experiencing that you might or might not be aware of.

If you have any questions about this process please email me at cheri22@gmail.com with SEPTEMBER SPECIAL in the subject line and I can answer any questions before you make your purchase.

The winner!

Okay, drawn randomly, was winner number 6 Diva Loca! Please email me at cheri22@gmail.com and put "secret psychic" in the subject line and I will forward you to the person who is going to take care of your winning!

I think that it was neat to see some of your interpretations of what you guys have shown.

As for my grandmother (my mom's mom) I would have to say that we are not really close. I have been visiting with her a bit more now that I am older, but that's a long storey. Perhaps though, the interpretation connection would have been my grandmother from my Dad's side. She passed away when he was 16 years old. So it would make sense that she would pop in as a way of saying hello:)

As for an orchard and or a lake, I think that these are "symbols" rather than something you were to connect. Perhaps something you should look at www.dreammoods.com and type in certain things as it will allow you to interpret images. As you progress in your abilities, you will know with practice what certain images mean, and feelings...etc..

The lake is this
Alternatively, the lake may provide you with solace, security, and peace of mind.


The orchard is this
Orchard
To see or be in an orchard in your dream, represents your potential for success.. Alternatively, it symbolizes fertility.

I think that for the people who saw this and connected to me, is not only what they see from me, but also how they see me as well.. Does this make sense?

Congrats to everyone for trying this exercises!!!! Don't forget Thursdays giveaway!

Shhh......its a secret.....

Okay its Tuesday and that means its SECRET PSYCHIC TIME! This is the third time for this person, so means that there will be three more weeks to give her readings away! As I mentioned before shes an astrologist and has a way of working out fertility astrology among other things. So this should be fun!

To be able to enter to win, I am going to make this a bit trickier. I want you to "read" me. I want you to say the first thing that comes to your mind when you think of my name. Try and connect yourself to my energy and see what you pick up. It can be a tidbit you see of me as a child, can be something you see now. Could be a feeling they give you in regards to personality..etc. Anything that comes up! Don't be shy. As always, all I ask is that you at least try. If you try and it did not work still feel free to enter. All those who enter will be allowed a chance to win (winner drawn randomly from entries)

I know for me, most of my information comes through images and feelings. This is a great exercises to try and open up your own gifts.

Now in regards to the background I have added a background image. This one is here for a bit until I either find something else I like, or get bored of this one! I think its okay, allows the text and images to have a nice contrast and makes it not as boring as the previous no background color! So Nikki, thank you for sending me the link to the site you located. I had no idea I could change the background color! I did try and use the template you linked as it was nice colors etc, but when pasted to the blogger, the text got lost in some of the black on the sides. So please email me cheri22@gmail.com with blogger template in the subject line and I will provide you with a free reading!

The winner will be announced tomorrow night to allow everyone enough time to enter. Please remember, by entering to win, you are promising to keep the secret for another three weeks. After that, feel free to share her contact information with who ever you want!